Dilemma

[Ted Striker]

Originally posted by Pekka
Az, Dude, you'll stop thinking of B when you get it on with A good enough. I mean, if you really start liking A and you develop a meaningful relationship, B is not your worry anymore, and is it immoral, hell no. Excuse me but most men still fantasize about other girls, married or not. But it stays in the fantasy level. That's OK. what are you, a thought police?!??! wtf!!

Get on with it Az. Send her yourself in that package we talked about earlier.

Supercitizen is right.

You might be surprised. Maybe you'll get to know her and she'll be awesome.

But if you just don't have any interest in this girl at all, you're just wanting her to be around because you think that's cool to have a girl in your life, then you're better off on your own.

Is there a woman around? Where is Mrs. T anyway?

[Pekka]

Well I've had this few times before myself. Liking someone else better, but ending up with someone other who I wasn't so much interested but interested none of the less. It works out, that void will be filled. Men are simple creatures, it's rather easy for a woman to make a man happy if she wants to. And when you are happy with it, then you will be glad and relieved. Glad because you are in good relationship and relieved because the other girl does not occupy your thoughts anymore.

And that other girl already has a boyfriend. IMO you shouldn't try to break it up. That's just not cool. Unless of course you are deeply in love with her, but I dare to think you are not, otherwise you would be already stalking her like there's no tomorrow and getting restraining orders every other day. That's what true love is about. Getting penalized.

[Ted Striker]

Men are pretty easy to to make happy in my opinion.

All you have to do two things:

1) Feed him

2) Feed the trouser snake

It's really that simple, about the same as a dog except he can carry heavy objects and listen to the end of the day rant just before dinner.

EDIT: Actually the dog can do the end of the day rant thing too, so really we can carry heavy objects.

[Pekka]

That's right. And if you are unconditional about it, well, that's even better. Women are fairly easy to keep happy as well but it requires a lot more effort. And money.

[Az]

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Men are pretty easy to to make happy in my opinion.

All you have to do two things:

1) Feed him

2) Feed the trouser snake

That's like saying that men don't strive to achieve anything in life but:

1)Steady job.
2)woman.
3)Maybe some kids.


That's the "dead inside at 35" mentality, and no way am I falling for this logic. I am not like that.

[Kuciwalker]

Originally posted by Az
Well, it's not my "real goal". I often say that sort of thing jokingly, but sadly, I am an emo kid at heart. I want to have a relationship, but I'd rather have it with a girl I am already falling for, than to have it with a girl I may or may not get these feelings for. In that case it's clear what the moral choice is. It's the existance of the boyfriend that messes things up ( to say the least )

Feelings can easily develop once you're in the relationship.

[monolith94]

How physically attractive do you find A, exactly???

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by Az
So, you're basically saying that breaking up a relationship is morally reprehensible? I agree.

Wrong.

[Az]

How physically attractive do you find A, exactly???

Less than B. but it's not about the looks - I actually didn't notice how great B looked the first time I met her.

Wrong.

Why wrong?

[KrazyHorse]

Because there's no inherent moral value to a relationship.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Az
That's the "dead inside at 35" mentality, and no way am I falling for this logic. I am not like that.

So you are determined to stay unhappy for the rest of your life?

[Ted Striker]

Originally posted by Az

Support Apolyton, buy Call to Power 2

Men are pretty easy to to make happy in my opinion.

All you have to do two things:

1) Feed him

2) Feed the trouser snake

That's like saying that men don't strive to achieve anything in life but:

1)Steady job.
2)woman.
3)Maybe some kids.


That's the "dead inside at 35" mentality, and no way am I falling for this logic. I am not like that.

Nah you're just looking at it from the wrong angle.

[Az]

Oh, aren't you a bunch of Mr. Funnyfaces!

[Ted Striker]

[Ted Striker]

I guess what I tried to mean was, for me, when I concentrate on the simple things, the foundations of life, the "cool" stuff just seems to find it's way to me and just falls into my lap.