I have a bit of a dilemma. My good friend is coming to visit me tomorrow for few days. Basically I have to show him good time. Not a problem. But I know for a fact that he wants to go to places I don't. That, plus the fact that I'm not swimming in money right now and I'm trying to save up to get a sofa, impossible task almost it seems like. So a weekend would blow money.. I know he wants to go to plastic teenage bars to listen to latest ****ty euro trash pop and feel ecletic and then ****ing argue that it's fun for me too. It's something I liked when I was 16-18. Now I freaking hate those kinds of places. But I know he insists going to exactly those places and it's like a debate if I say let's rather go somewhere else. It's like.. 'that's best, period.' 'I don't.. I won't enjoy myself there listen man let's go somewhere we both enjoy' 'no this is best'. You know.. it's useless to argue. It's one of those anti-intellectual debates that actually makes me angry when it goes on long enough.
So I want to have good time, but I have these pressures I won't have good time at all, it'll blow my savings in a way I only feel frustrated and anxious anyway and stupid, and yet if I don't do that, it'll be me being a partypooper stupid guy. Yeah and I know he goes as far as offering to give me a loan. So I can afford it. It'snot a rgument 'well it's expensive and I don't even enjoy it that much'. Then he offers me money and say this is where we go. It's not like I can take the money, because then I have to pay it back soon. SO no I don't feel great about spending 50 euros a night when I can save up to 150 euros a month IF I live like a monk. It just.. sucks.
But he's a good friend, so I don't want to get into arguments about that, only because it's frustrating the hell out of me. Someone trying to argue why the teenage bar is the best, and why I WILL enjoy it when I almost start having heart attacks from frustration even going past one.
And he is maybe my best friend so.. I just have the pressure from this already. And I can't have fun when I'm pressured so.. and it's not that .. I just don't like goign into places that has the average age limit of 18. I'm serious. I hate those freaking places, in here especially. You want to see how the punks in here have fun? I'd rather have a knife fight. I just.. it just ruins my whole day most likely. And he wants to go 100% guaranteed. In fact he wants to go to ALL of them. And I'll know it'll be difficult for me to enjoy the day even because it'll be all planning for that crap the whole day.. he's excited, I'm not. Because I know we w on't go to places I like. Or if we go, he'll be disappointed. And he is the guest so.. I won't.. but.. ****. Suggestions?
Oh and by the way, debating with him is impossible. His legit arguments consists of 'yes!' 'No!' 'The tracks I like are bes tin the world, it's a fact because.. you don't like it?`Well you're wrong you DO like it'. Not if it's bad track, but that YOU like it in fact you just don't know it.
WTF?! And he's serious as cancer too, and never gives up. It's frustrating so I just like give up and try something else all together.
So I want to have good time, but I have these pressures I won't have good time at all, it'll blow my savings in a way I only feel frustrated and anxious anyway and stupid, and yet if I don't do that, it'll be me being a partypooper stupid guy. Yeah and I know he goes as far as offering to give me a loan. So I can afford it. It'snot a rgument 'well it's expensive and I don't even enjoy it that much'. Then he offers me money and say this is where we go. It's not like I can take the money, because then I have to pay it back soon. SO no I don't feel great about spending 50 euros a night when I can save up to 150 euros a month IF I live like a monk. It just.. sucks.
But he's a good friend, so I don't want to get into arguments about that, only because it's frustrating the hell out of me. Someone trying to argue why the teenage bar is the best, and why I WILL enjoy it when I almost start having heart attacks from frustration even going past one.
And he is maybe my best friend so.. I just have the pressure from this already. And I can't have fun when I'm pressured so.. and it's not that .. I just don't like goign into places that has the average age limit of 18. I'm serious. I hate those freaking places, in here especially. You want to see how the punks in here have fun? I'd rather have a knife fight. I just.. it just ruins my whole day most likely. And he wants to go 100% guaranteed. In fact he wants to go to ALL of them. And I'll know it'll be difficult for me to enjoy the day even because it'll be all planning for that crap the whole day.. he's excited, I'm not. Because I know we w on't go to places I like. Or if we go, he'll be disappointed. And he is the guest so.. I won't.. but.. ****. Suggestions?
Oh and by the way, debating with him is impossible. His legit arguments consists of 'yes!' 'No!' 'The tracks I like are bes tin the world, it's a fact because.. you don't like it?`Well you're wrong you DO like it'. Not if it's bad track, but that YOU like it in fact you just don't know it.
WTF?! And he's serious as cancer too, and never gives up. It's frustrating so I just like give up and try something else all together.
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