Oi women are teh confusing. 'Poly women mind translating for me?

[Space05us]

She insists we're just friends. Why does she call out of nowhere to talk about nothing? Why does she cuddle with me in my bed after work? She even waited almost 2 hours after she got off just to give me a ride home last night, and stayed out an hour longer than usual. She usually gets home by 1 at the latest, last night she stayed until almost 2:30.

Not that I mind, Im just confused. This is not normal friend stuff, is it?

[:) Smiley]

**** was Barrow that far removed from human civilization?

Of course it's not normal friend stuff.

[Pekka]

that's women friends for you. Sounds like the type who needs little abusive bastard to slap around her face, and then.. she calls you. And after that... she goes back to be buggered by the same types.

Dump her. Now.

The bed cuddling seems kind of.. it throws this around the map though. So not sure. But dump her anyway.. better stay cool and calm and sure..

[Timexwatch]

She slept in your bed and nothing happened at all?

Maybe she's expecting you to make a move?

[GePap]

Wait, you come asking these question IN APOLYTON?

[Lancer]

Slap her buttocks first.

[Space05us]

Originally posted by GePap
Wait, you come asking these question IN APOLYTON?

read the thread title again, man.

She slept in your bed and nothing happened at all?

Maybe she's expecting you to make a move?

No. Ive tried a few times to make a move, she shoots me down every time. And she says nothing about it.

[Asher]

"just friends" = **** off

[Lancer]

You've tried wine?

[Ben Kenobi]

Ask her what she means by a friend. Tell her where you come from friends don't sleep in each other's beds.

[DaShi]

Stop seeing her Space. She's using you. She's not your friend. If she wants to be more, she'll come around. Otherwise, you don't need the headaches.

[GePap]

Originally posted by Space05us


read the thread title again, man.

You mean the 5 or 6 around?

[Space05us]

Originally posted by DaShi
Stop seeing her Space. She's using you. She's not your friend. If she wants to be more, she'll come around. Otherwise, you don't need the headaches.

Its not a headache. I've already started checking over the stock to see what else I have to choose from. In the mean time I dont mind comforting her for whatever reason she needs it.

[Space05us]

Originally posted by GePap


You mean the 5 or 6 around?

Yes.

[Lancer]

They'll just tell you that "you need to be sensitive to her needs if you're a true friend, and what's wrong with that anyway? "

Also, that "she slept in your bed as a friend but you let her, and how did that come about anyway?"

Hey, not many women here but we can try to fill in.