Five reasons a guy dumps you

[Ted Striker]

The older I've gotten, the prettier the girls are that I ask out. At least, they are pretty according to my standards.

I would never ask out a girl that I don't find attractive, that's not fair to her. She deserves to be with someone that sees her as being really pretty.

At the same time, I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't think I'm good looking either.

On the other hand, alot of super hot girls are really really high maintenance. But not all of them. One of my friends is married to a model, and all these rich guys kept trying to get with her, and she kept rejecting them all, except for my friend, who won her over by simply being kind to her.

[Mr. Harley]

I tend to prefer "attractive" to "hot". If she cannot smile or laugh, I'm not interested. The "hot", sultry, sulky look is a massive turn-off for me.

[Ted Striker]

*cough*

visual example please

[Pyrodrew]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
On the same subject so t speak and very courious How may of u guys agree that u wont approach a woman because u think she is to pretty ad wont pay attention to you or blow you off, and or ask out a plain looking girl u really like but aint as hot as girl number 1?

If all else is equal, I would rather be rejected by a pretty woman than a plain woman.

The fear of the pretty popular girl is more in highschool where insecurities and gossip run wild by both genders.

[alva]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov
5 reasons why gay men dump one another:

1. It's Tuesday.
2. You mentioned possibly moving in together in several years time. Smotherer.
3. You ****ed that guy we once had a threesome with behind my back!
4. It's Thursday.
5. Like I need a reason.

Eugh, isn't #3 pretty much a given?

[Drogue]

The MSN thing is surprisingly accurate. The first two are bang on, both are things I wouldn't be able to stand. Though I disagree with comment that:

"When you jump right to sex, you skip a lot of the bonding behaviors that intensify a relationship"

My girlfriend and I jumped straight into bed (despite my protestations ) and have kept bonding. We didn't skip the "romantic, electrifying bonding period", because I don't think that's dependant on having sex or not. Sexual tension doesn't need to stop after you've had sex.

Three would also apply to me, but not with money as in the example given. I *love* being taken out and treated, as long as I don't feel inadequate in other ways. It's not a money issue, it's a balance issue - I wouldn't want to date someone who was richer, more intelligent, more attractive, better in bed, etc. all in one, as I'd feel inadequate and intimidated. There needs to be a balance, both of adoring and feeling adored.

Four and five are typical male things that every bloke has a different tolerance for. Yes, being too motherish and moving too fast are bad, but so is trying to keep it casual when emotions are involved and acting like you don't care about someone. It's all about the middle ground - showing you care but allowing independence.

[chequita guevara]

Bunnygrrl is very much like my mother, though it wasn't readily apparent at first.

[Agathon]

Originally posted by Alexander's Horse


as you get older you realise this is the worst one.

Yep. Australasian men have the antidote: the "shed".

Women don't realize that there's a reason that sheds are filthy hovels – to keep them out!!

[Barinthus]

Probably too late and if redundant, my apologizes...

5 reasons I'd dump a woman...

1. Bad breath
2. Lousy kisser
3. Too frigid
4. Clingy/needy
5. Possessive of me

[Mrs. Tuberski]

I have one my son just gave me and did. Mind hes only 14 an young but here is what he did. He has a gf and just broke up with her for talking to and having to many male friends. Now mind you these two kids go to different schools so they only see each other on the weekends. I told him he was stupid for breaking up with her for just have male friends he said so she should be talking to more girls. I even metioned to him that he talks to alot of girls at his school he said that is different they are just friends. I just rolled my eyes and said whatever dude. There is just no reasoning with a 14 yo i guess

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Originally posted by Barinthus
Probably too late and if redundant, my apologizes...

5 reasons I'd dump a woman...

1. Bad breath
2. Lousy kisser
3. Too frigid
4. Clingy/needy
5. Possessive of me

The bad breath i can see, the lousy kisser yes cause there is othing like getting kissed by a vacuum cleaner, I would add bad body oder, which makes me wonder if a guy has every jumped a girl because she wore way to much perfume and or makeup?

[Agathon]

The bad breath i can see, the lousy kisser yes cause there is othing like getting kissed by a vacuum cleaner, I would add bad body oder, which makes me wonder if a guy has every jumped a girl because she wore way to much perfume and or makeup?

Perfume and makeup are for other women, Mrs T. Most men have no intrinsic interest in what women wear or how they have their hair cut. They just want a reasonably pretty girl who dresses casually, not some harpy daubed with Red Indian war paint.

One of the biggest mistakes of the feminist movement is to assume that these things were imposed on women by men, rather than being competitive behaviour among women themselves. The odd thing is that a vast majority of men would prefer it if women spent less time on makeup and clothing – excluding homosexuals, who seem to love it.

[Dinner]

Originally posted by Alexander's Horse
I agree with this list

My solution is have several girlfriends at the same time so you always had the right girlfriend for any purpose or occasion.

Are you kidding? That's just more chicks asking you if she looks fat in her dress or to get mad at you for forgetting your 7.3 month anniversary or some other type bollocks.

[Ben Kenobi]

Tuberski is a very lucky guy. You're a very smart and sensible lady, Mrs. Tuberski.

To steal from Ted,

word up!

[Ben Kenobi]

The older I've gotten, the prettier the girls are that I ask out. At least, they are pretty according to my standards.

I would never ask out a girl that I don't find attractive, that's not fair to her. She deserves to be with someone that sees her as being really pretty.

At the same time, I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't think I'm good looking either.

Agreed. I used to get some girls talking to me, just because I didn't pay much attention to them, but generally, I have asked girls that I think are pretty and who I get along with.

My first girlfriend was a friend for several years before we got together. She wasn't the prettiest girl, but up until then we had gotten along, and that's always been more important than looks.