is anyone a loner?

[MRT144]

well ive arrived at the conclusion that i am in fact a loner. i havent seen any of my "friends" in the last 3 weeks and i just spend all my time by myself now.

i feel really bad too because i want to go hang out with people and do things but everyone else has their own plans now and i dont fit into them.

but i cant help but wonder if this is just part of growing up.

[Dinner]

I can be a loner at times but for the most part I like to be with a group of friends.

[Asher]

I think it's really common, especially in the transition from HS to College when lots of people change and move away and that kind of thing...

[Dinner]

The key is to make new friends. I've found that in life you and your friends are consently drifting apart and then closer together. It kind of just depends on what everyone has going on in their lives right then.

Of course if you make a conscious effort to insure you have alot of friends then there will always be someone to do things with on a weekend night.

[MRT144]

well most my friends have moved away to college since last year and only one of my friends and i have stayed here. they are still local though, going to berkeley and UC santa cruz and santa clara.

but still they have all made new friends and are adapting and i feel like a cat left out in the rain.

but on the bright side ill be going to college in 7-8 months and meeting a lot of other musicians and producers and learning the art as well.

[Jon Shafer]

Though I have a lot of friends, I suppose I'm the 'loner' sort... I prefer being by myself working on one of my little projects to being out doing stuff.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Trip
Though I have a lot of friends, I suppose I'm the 'loner' sort... I prefer being by myself working on one of my little projects to being out doing stuff.

Me too.

I only go out and do things with my friends like every other week for one day or something, and mostly because they demand I come and do something.

Tomorrow afternoon I get to go hiking.

[monkspider]

*raises hand*
All my friends are in my old town, so it looks like I'm stuck with you Poly nerds.

[Jon Shafer]

Originally posted by monkspider
*raises hand*
All my friends are in old town, so it looks like I'm stuck with you Poly nerds.

And you wouldn't have it any other way.

[monkspider]

Originally posted by Trip

And you wouldn't have it any other way.

[Jon Miller]

hiking is great

Jon Miller

[Dis]

I'm a loner that likes being around people

honest

[ixnay]

I have a small group of good friends, both from high school and college. Other than them, I prefer to be alone.

[Dis]

to further clarify.

I do like being around people. The problem is finding people with similar views/interests as mine. This has been tough. So often I am alone. It's not easy being so different from normal people. Yes I am abnormal .

But there are times I like my alone time.

[MRT144]

dissident, thats the way i am, almost exactly.