My new strategy for picking up women: - and what are your strategies?

[Dis]

is completely ignoring them. So far I haven't had much success, but I'll keep trying.


Anyways how do you guys meet women (or men)? Where is the strangest place you have gone to meet women (or men)?

[OldWarrior_42]

Try learning the Vulcan Nerve Grip.

[loinburger]

I usually meet women through friends, but I need a new plan, because my friends have terrible taste in women.

The strangest place I've gone to meet women was a public urinal. There weren't many there.

[Dinner]

Coffee shops are great for meeting girls so are sporting events.

[TCO]

coffee shops. Haven't tried sporting events.

[Zero]

Just give them special treatments. Most women have serious problems with self esteem.

that would only work in very limited situations.

[faded glory]

meet through friends and stuff. Try to show yourself as funny. Chicks love funny guys.


But then again. Your talking to a guy who hasnt hit 2nd base 6 weeks, and almost got married, lives alone,unemployed, and ate a can of green beans for dinner.

[orange]

show interest

[Inverse Icarus]

my problem is that i fall for "hot girls that don't know their hot". they've either had some weird highschool expierecne and feel ugly or whatever, low self esterm and whatnot. perfect feeding ground for me. then, as it usually happens, they realize they're hot before i get any of the goods.

i'm a funny guy but meh. hasn't gotten me anywhere. i'm pretty shy myself though, and that don't help. i loathe parties. social anxiety. woooo!

[Jon Miller]

anywhere I am not

seriosuly

Jon Miller

[Zkribbler]

If anyone here had an effective strategy for picking up women, do you think they'd be wasting their time hanging around here??

[Dis]

good point, why am I asking this here?

[Az]

Zkribbler

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Zkribbler
If anyone here had an effective strategy for picking up women, do you think they'd be wasting their time hanging around here??

well there are us old married farts-- She's at work


As for strategies I just went with honesty and very direct approach-- I find it works better than most "strategies". I ended up in realationships or in bed with the women that liked me and didn't waste time playing games with women that didn't go for me.
Most women will recognize honest and tehre was no bs.

[Dis]

I don't use pickup lines.

but I'm terrible at first impressions. I get too nervous. Once I get to know someone it is fairly easy. All my girls I successfully dated I got to know before I started dating them. Either in classes in school, or they were friends of someone I knew.

I have never been able to approach a strange woman and ask her out.