Do women really like to be treated like crap?

[chequita guevara]

Dude, you're young. You should be sowing your wild oats while you still have the energy (remember to wear your condoms). One of the very cruel ironies of nature is that men reach their sexual peak at 17, while women reach theirs at 35. This means as you're slowing down, she's gonna want more and more. Nature is a cruel *****.

Also, you should be honing (boning? ) your technique on people who don't matter, so that you can really impress the women with whom you want to have relationships.

[KrazyHorse]

I don't drink

That's one of your problems.

[devilmunchkin]

do you like getting treated like crap?

[chequita guevara]

Don't you?

[orange]

Loin - you're right...i'm learning that I guess I was just content being the nice guy that lots of girls were friends with, as long as the one I was with really loved me (like I thought she did)

Che - eh, i don't really think of it that way...to me sex means something...it's not just something you do for fun. That's how I was brought up and that's how I think.

Btw: it's 19 for men. And I like older women

Frogger - meh, that's your opinion.

dm - not anymore

[monkspider]

I think all this talk of women wanting to be treated like crap is largely based in myth. Perhaps I just have always just been so insanely, overwhelmingly nice that I somehow overcame this tendency, but I have never encountered this phenomonon in all my years in various dating circles. Nice guys always win in the end, i say.

[Asher]

Not drinking isn't a problem, it's actually a good thing. Being a straight edge is "cool" in some circles, at least here.

It shows lots of responsibility, which is something a lot of more mature girls look for.

[orange]

and that's the type of girl I go for

i've actually never smoked, done drugs, or drank...not once...

I don't care if other people do, just don't do it myself

[chequita guevara]

Originally posted by orange
Che - eh, i don't really think of it that way...to me sex means something...it's not just something you do for fun. That's how I was brought up and that's how I think.

What the hell's wrong with you people? A good **** is great way to pass the time, entertain yourself and a friend or new aquaintence, etc. Besides, when you finally meet that special someone, and you lie down beside her and proceed to demonstrate you have eleven thumbs, will she think she wants to repeat the process?

[monkspider]

Way to be Orange. I find all these so-called "party girls" to be terribly boring and cliche anyway. They are certainly not prone to interesting conversation (unless you find anecdotes of wild times at the recent frat party or getting their belly button pierced interesting). Straight-edge girlies =

[loinburger]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara
Besides, when you finally meet that special someone, and you lie down beside her and proceed to demonstrate you have eleven thumbs, will she think she wants to repeat the process?

Exactly. Get the awkward part out of the way before you meet somebody who might make you live it down for the rest of your life.

[Asher]

Originally posted by orange
and that's the type of girl I go for

i've actually never smoked, done drugs, or drank...not once...

I don't care if other people do, just don't do it myself

Good attitude to have, I think it'll pay off more for you as you get a bit older as more girls come to their senses.

[KrazyHorse]

Gah. You people are nice to talk to and all, but given the choice I'd rather hang out with loin, chegitz et al. They know how to have fun...

It's like you folks are looking to be 45 at 20...

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by loinburger


Exactly. Get the awkward part out of the way before you meet somebody who might make you live it down for the rest of your life.

Blech. My first time is too horrendous to recall. the good news is that I improved rapidly (at least judging from response curve)...

[Asher]

Originally posted by Frogger
Gah. You people are nice to talk to and all, but given the choice I'd rather hang out with loin, chegitz et al. They know how to have fun...

It's like you folks are looking to be 45 at 20...

I never said I was a straight edge. I just know people who are, and I love hanging out with them too. Designated drivers! Wooo.