How hard is it to seduce a woman?

[monolith94]

Maybe 6 days ago I was hanging out with this girl at the place where she works. I overheard her whisper quietly to a cohort "he's so hot".

This past night I ran into her at a play downtown. She was with her friend, let's call him "J".

So just two quick questions for you then:
a. how hard is it to seduce a woman?
b. any specific tips?

[Jon Miller]

a) depends on who you are

Jon Miller

[Asher]

a. Would depend on the woman and how she plays it.
b. Would depend on the woman and how she plays it.

[Dan Severn]

It depends...

How much alchohol can ye afford?

[KrazyHorse]

Women want men as much as men want women; they just want them in a different way. A woman feels like she's giving up her pride when she screws a man she hasn't been dating for a while, so the only problem is getting her over this hump. Make it seem natural, and not like you're trying to conquer her or treat her like a prize, and she'll go to bed with you pretty readily...

[KrazyHorse]

It's important that a woman knows that you specifically want her when you get randy. She doesn't just want you to treat her like the nearest warm body...

[Urban Ranger]

Yeah, but the "he" J referred to doesn't have to be you, monolith. Wouldn't that be embarassing?

[Dan Severn]

Originally posted by Frogger
so the only problem is getting her over this hump.

did ye intend that?

[KrazyHorse]

Not particularly...

[Urban Ranger]

The thing is you don't choose women, they choose you. You're just reacting to her signals.

So keep your eyes open and watch those signals. If she's giving you the cues, just go ahead and show your interest in her.

[Lorizael]

It's impossible. They seduce you. Even when you think you've seduced a women, she's just tricking you. In reality she seduced you.

What I want to know is, how do you know when a woman is trying to seduce you? What are these signals you all speak of? I am socially blind.

[Asher]

Lots of eyecontact, lots of smalltalk, she'll casually look at you when she's bored, excessive compliments.

It's actually quite annoying.

[KrazyHorse]

Not at all. If you're interested in her, it's exciting. If you're not, it's flattering (even when they're uggos).

[Asher]

It's annoying for me. I hate people watching me, I hate smalltalk, and I'm excessively modest (in person )

[KrazyHorse]

Or, as was the case a week or two ago, even if she's a 16 year-old (felt like a dirty old man talking to her)...