Asian Girls and White Guys?

[Zero]

I dont see the advantage you speak of drake. I find that being white or partly white puts you at a handicap unless ur dealing with asian girls who have white men fetishes. Especially with the japanese. The feeling that ur not one of them is going to be hard to overcome unless ur dealing with ultra westernized unjapanese jpanese.

[Drake Tungsten]

I dont see the advantage you speak of drake. I find that being white or partly white puts you at a handicap unless ur dealing with asian girls who have white men fetishes. Especially with the japanese. The feeling that ur not one of them is going to be hard to overcome unless ur dealing with ultra westernized unjapanese jpanese.

For serious relationships, yes. For casual flings, no.

[mindseye]

Re: Asian Girls and White Guys?

Originally posted by Sn00py
Ok, I am a white guy who is marrying a Chinese girl.

Congratulations!

If only I could marry my Asian boyfriend.

[Inverse Icarus]

this is probably bullsh*t, but i find the taller asian chicks really into taller white guys.

good for 6'4" ol' me

[Inverse Icarus]

Originally posted by Zero
I dont see the advantage you speak of drake. I find that being white or partly white puts you at a handicap unless ur dealing with asian girls who have white men fetishes. Especially with the japanese. The feeling that ur not one of them is going to be hard to overcome unless ur dealing with ultra westernized unjapanese jpanese.

yeah, and *******s like drake who start **** because "i'm not one of them" don't help much, do they?

[mindseye]

Originally posted by Zero
No theres more asian males than females. China.

Hey, I'm doing my part, okay? I'm doing the best I can to redress the male-female imbalance in China.

oh and most white ppl have poor tastes in asian women. So Us asians or ones with asian ancestry dont really care about you folks stealing our women. You guys usually pick up ones we worry about having to marry.

I love how that works out, everyone is happy! The ugly Chinese chicks get carried off by adoring, "rich" white guys, Chinese guys not complaining.

Same effect in gay circles, by the way. White guys often go for the Chinese guys who look the "most Chinese".

[Bosh]

Originally posted by Zero
I dont see the advantage you speak of drake. I find that being white or partly white puts you at a handicap unless ur dealing with asian girls who have white men fetishes.

Well most Korean women probably prefer Korean men, but the number of Korean women who prefer white men outnumbers the number of white men in Korea but a pretty good margin. Koreans also have a wierd national inferiority complex (when they aren't been hyper-nationalistic) so a lot want to emigrate to the west or send their kids to live there (including one of my 7 year olds students) to get a western education. Part of this results in a huge english-learning craze and one of the nicer results of this is lots of Korean english teachers who usually are pretty close to fluent in english and like western culture a lot (although not westernized by US standards since a good number of them have never been outside of Asia or even Korea) and of course the majority of Korean english teachers (especially in private cram schools) are young females

Western men are also portrayed in a biased way in the Asian media, which leads to the bizarre belief that white men are simply better than Asian men amongst many of the women here.

Many Asian women think that Western men don't have any of the negative qualities they associate with their native men, which is bull****, but it exists anyway.

Well the stereotype of westerners in Korea is that we're all drunken womanizers (while the stereotype we have of each other is that we're all a bunch of geeks who suddenly become drunken womanizers when we get here ) so things cut both ways a bit.

And let's not even get into the way in which being with a foreign man is seen as a status symbol here.

It is? Things are a bit more conservative here and Korean women with western men are often viewed as sluts by Koreans (on the upside we get to be forbidden fruit or something I guess...) For example, my gf's family doesn't know about me, since she's afraid they'll really freak out if they knew she was dating a foreigner.

[connorkimbro]

What's lu? hui is "turn" or "look back" and tou is head.

I'm willing to bet it's something along the lines of "ratio"

[connorkimbro]

To add to what Boshko said . . . being in the military is another huge handicap, here in korea. The sterotype is that all US Soldiers are dumb, troublemakers, rude, violent, etc. . .

However, I have this handy ability to speak korean . . . which REALLY impresses damn near every korean i meet, and thus even if they know that i'm a soldier, they're willing to give me a chance.

[MattyBoy]

Isn't it just that blacks look more male than whites look more male than asians? Hence black men have their pick of the women and asian women have their pick of the men, should they choose to stray down that route. The strayers make it hard for the black women and asian men.

But, this is hardly justification for a stigma against inter-racial marriages. People who fall in love should never have to fear from the bigots that view their relationship through a lens distorted by prejudices and stereotypes.

Also, this is just one of many factors of attraction when it comes to the dating game. i.e: A strong, healthy, tall, clean-skinned, funny, rich man with great listening skills will always get the girl no matter what race the two of them are.

[Alexander's Horse]

Occidental Adam, Oriental Eve.

That about sums it up.

[MattyBoy]

Hang on,
Should'nt this thread be in the "Other Games" forum?
- once you stop playing the dating game, you can get on with real life.

[Q Classic]

i dunno, i look pretty damn male to everyone i meet.

[FrostyBoy]

Originally posted by MattyBoy
Also, this is just one of many factors of attraction when it comes to the dating game. i.e: A strong, healthy, tall, clean-skinned, funny, rich man with great listening skills will always get the girl no matter what race the two of them are.

Luckily these are not the majority of the population, these people are annoying.

If a girl came to me because I was strong, healthy, tall, clean-skinned, funny and rich, I would show her the window and push her out.
A woman like that is most likely to be materialistic, abnoxious, selfish and get easily bored - thus leading to a divorce. It would be a waste of time to marry a person like this.

[Space05us]

Also, this is just one of many factors of attraction when it comes to the dating game. i.e: A strong, healthy, tall, clean-skinned, funny, rich man with great listening skills will always get the girl no matter what race the two of them are.

pfffft, when was the last time you had a date? Sounds to me like youre trying to make yourself feel better. A girl is attracted to those things upon first site sure, but they dont make decisions on who to be with based on those things. Although I'll admit they play a small factor.