Ex-gfs turning models after you dump them

[Pekka]

Solver, Nah it's only proves I'm a sensible guy. What happened to her was unfortunate, but I also have to take it under consideration that I haven't been in any kind of contact with her for a long time and the fact, that it didn't concern me. Helping is helping, but kicking someones butt is kicking someones butt and it doesn't directly help anyone. I don't have all the facts what happened, and furthermore, I'm no Judge Dredd, handing out punishments as I see them fit. If we were still in contact with each other, no problem. But as we have grown apart, kind of like strangers, it's none of my god damn business. If I'd have seen it happening in front of my eyes, sure, but this happened some time ago and it's over with. so.. BOO YOURSELF!

You see, I don't believe in violence. It rarely solves anything. It should be used only for self defense. What happened, happened, and the self defense aspect was long gone. It would have been about revenge, and I despice the word.

[Solver]

Solver, Nah it's only proves I'm a sensible guy.

Excuses shmecuses.

Helping is helping, but kicking someones butt is kicking someones butt and it doesn't directly help anyone.

Bah. There are times when kicking someone's butt IS helping.

Not to mention that, if you had kicked the guy's butt, you would also get a chance to get your hands (and other parts of your body) on whatever was under her tight jeans .

If you want, I can give you a few good examples proving yourself wrong via PM .

[Pekka]

SUre, but at that point I wasn't interested about her in that way anymore . That was the only thing I considered 'I could get back with her......'.. but I didn't want to.

[Dinner]

Admite it Pekka. He was a big Bloke wasn't he?

[Pekka]

Nah.. just some punk. But it's none of my business. I can't go and try to beat everyone who has done something wrong. It's none of my business. If it's personal, then it's personal but this wasn't personal. Not to me it wasn't.

besides, it wouldn't have been worth it. What would have been my gain? It's a serious thing to do, so just knowing I did it is just not enough. You guys are amazing . Who would have gone after the guy you don't even know after a long time it happened? It's over... and risk, that I don't know who this person is, who his friends are. I might be looking at big problems if he has friends who are looking forward settling scores back. Just not worth it. And as a matter a fact, I don't think I was in the position where it would have been justified. People who would have been justified to do it would have been his bf (well he was his bf.. ) or brothers. No one else.

[Solver]

If it's personal, then it's personal but this wasn't personal. Not to me it wasn't.

Then you never cared for that girl.

[Pekka]

I did care for her. But not enough to go after someone after few years. Listen, I'm not the one who everyone can come to and cry their problems, and then I go do them ILLEGAL favours. I'm not godfather. I call it as I see it. It didn't have anything to do with justice anymore. She wasn't injured. Justified is he gets his ass kicked, but it has to be someone else than me, because it's not justified for me to do it.

[Pekka]

You have weird definitions of caring and loving..

Go kick someones butt is showing that I onced cared for someone? You violence freaks. So I go after someone.. you think I just slap him in the face like a pimp? He's a punk and he'll try to do everything to get back up and get me. I'd have to trash him and send him to hospital for few weeks. Is that justice? Hell no. Besides, what if his buddies decides to send me to the hospital? Or what if he carries some kind of weapon? I don't know this guy. So now I have to be packing myself so that won't happen. And before you realize it, I'm armed, ready to go after someone I have never met, who beat someone I used to date some years ago. You guys are crazy.
As a matter a fact, you should stop with imaging me being some kind of violence man (and I'm not that anyway) and look at the mirror. You are all crazy. Come down to the real world.

Don't go asking for troubles you don't want to deal with. My dad taught me to not get myself into situation where I can't get myself away. Unknown variables, everything illegal, risking your health... and the fact it's not my job.
Crazy bunch of men you are. It's not a school yard fight.
It's about to go beat up a grown man with friends. Perhaps armed. But you can go and show love for your ex-gfs any way you see fit

[Solver]

Know Pekka, if someone beat a girl I care for up, I wouldn't give a damn about whether he's a punk or not. If you can, go with your friends and kick his ass...

[Pekka]

OK! If it happened like last week, I might think about it as an option.. not now! Damn you Solver, you are one violent man! Jeesh...

[Solver]

Me? Violent? I'm a little peaceful geek who doesn't hurt anyone except for... mosquitos... that's right... mosquitos .

[Pekka]

Well the point is, that thing is non of my business. She hasn't asked me anything. She hasn't been threatened with more violence. There's nothing I can do for her, that I consider is my duty. It's her brothers duty or what ever to do it, not mine. Remember that, you psycho .
So, I understand someone thinking I should, but I don't understand why someone would seriously BOOOOOOOOOOOO me for not being a jerk myself . It's beyond me! Now, let's just forget about this and move on!

[reds4ever]

Silk

17 and 25? thats not much of a age difference. 'specially if she was a babe!

[Solver]

OK, much as I want to, I won't argue the point further.

Looks like we both are jerks. Satisfied ?

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Uber KruX
[edit: i don't suppose we were officially dating, so not a GF. i was just her b!tch.]

not a model, a cheerleader.

there was this girl who was new to our highschool school (this was 9th grade), and she was downright beautiful. italian / cuban mix, long brown hair, nice skintone, stacked, had back, the works i tell you, the works!

whatever happened in her past, she was very insecure about her self, especially her looks and whether or not people would like her. hell, thats what i live for, so i comforted her about her insecurities and became her friend. we started to hang out and my friends kept saying "it doesn't look right with your arm around her". f*ck them. after about 2 months of being a friend i got a real kiss . anyway, my strategy would be my downfall. cheerleader tryouts were comming along, and she was kind of excited about it, she had always wanted to be a cheerleader, she said. i've always wanted to bang a cheerleader, i thought. so i encouragesd her to do it, she even asked me to sit through the tryouts (awesome). she made it, and i even went to one of her competitions (i didnt even knew they existed). our team got the silver and she was estatic.

then, about a week later, she's dating a _junior_ (11th grade) football player. thats 17 on 14, mind you. we stayed friends for about a year after that, slowly drifting apart, my stomach dropping whenever i saw her holding hands with the jock bastard. she would also tell me about him. about every problem she had with him. f*ck that. eventually, we stopped talking alltogether, and would just say hi to eachother in the hall. she also gave me pity dances at 2 sweet sixteens, which was nice of her. she's go a humanitarian heart. GRINDING FOR THE NERDS! WOO!

thats all.

youre ****ing pathetic