Is falling in love the best way to start?

[Mercator]

The only possible problem with falling in love "at first sight" is if one loves the other more than the other way around.

That is less likely to happen when two slowly grow together.

[Alexander's Horse]

How dare you get this thread back on topic.

[Imran Siddiqui]

He is not wise to our ways.

[Mercator]

[*End Is Forever*]

I don't think you get a choice over how you fall in love. You just do. If you're making a concious decision over it, then you probably aren't in love at all... I guess it doesn't matter which is "better" because you're not making that choice anyway.

[Alinestra Covelia]

Yeah, I've seen guys go head over heels in love with girls they hardly know anything about, and when I tell them a few things about the girls, they think I'm trying to break them up or even worse, trying to make a move on them for myself. So when I just sit tight and watch them, they chase the girl and get the brush-off, and that's the only time I can talk to them.

And it's so hard to be their pal about it without going "Oh, I knew about that but I couldn't tell you about it" or "Yeah, all the girls know about that one".

[Ted Striker]

yo, you just gotta let them fall on their face

guys have penises so that's why they don't make the best decisions

[Sikander]

Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia
Yeah, I've seen guys go head over heels in love with girls they hardly know anything about, and when I tell them a few things about the girls, they think I'm trying to break them up or even worse, trying to make a move on them for myself. So when I just sit tight and watch them, they chase the girl and get the brush-off, and that's the only time I can talk to them.

And it's so hard to be their pal about it without going "Oh, I knew about that but I couldn't tell you about it" or "Yeah, all the girls know about that one".

Ah the heartbreak of unrequired love.

[orange]

I don't believe in the first option, but there is a place where the two options can meet...and I think that is best. Meeting someone and knowing that they're right for you, and then spending more time and showing yourself that you were right all along...and then getting into a relationship. Gradual is good, but it doesn't have to be settling.

[Brundlefly]

Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia
Yeah, I've seen guys go head over heels in love with girls they hardly know anything about, and when I tell them a few things about the girls, they think I'm trying to break them up or even worse, trying to make a move on them for myself. So when I just sit tight and watch them, they chase the girl and get the brush-off, and that's the only time I can talk to them.

If you do not have a player mentality, you will get played. It is important for a man to always be in control of the relationship and get respect he deserves. The person in the relationship who loves the least has the control. If you fall in love or chase the other, you give away your control. The attitude of the man in a relationship should be that HE is the prize and that he is doing the female a favor by allowing her to spend time with him and experience HIS charm. Most guys have the complete opposite attitude.

[st_swithin]

The funniest troll pick-up line in the last 24 hrs:

TROLL: "Hey, are you afraid of black men? Because, you know, I'm, like, black and lots of people are scared of black guys because we're scary."

ST_SWITHIN: "Do I look white to you? Maybe you haven't noticed that up until about a few years ago, I was 'coloured' too."

TROLL: "Well, I was just sayin' because people are scared of black people."

ST_SWITHIN: "That's nice."

TROLL: "Come on, let me shake your hand. I like you! You're cool." [sticks out hand]

ST_SWITHIN: "I don't think so."

TROLL: "Well, you ain't never gonna get an offer like mine again - only really pretty girls can turn guys like me down."

ST_SWITHIN: "How's this for not making a big deal about it?" [turns away]

;\

[Ted Striker]

damnnnnn

come on you know the brothers will protect you because they are hard core and also piss mom and dad off because they are black therefore making them the bad boy

irresistable how could you turn him down....

[Kirnwaffen]

I don't think 'how' really matters so much as that you do. If you fall in love, you fall in love. End of story. Everyone has a unique experience with love. It isn't better or worse than anyone else's, just different.

[Ted Striker]

true

[Q Classic]

st_swithin... how did you get uncolored?

might be helpful to know.