You are doing it wrong. Yes, relationship sex is better but some sex is better than no sex and surely you could keep this going if you would stop being so self consciously ackward.
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My awkwardness, though clearly a detriment to my success generally, played no rule in the cessation of activities here. I called it off because it got weird and complicated very quickly, such that no sex was definitely superior to this sex. In all honesty sex is not that important to me. It's physical closeness I miss most. If I were presented with a choice between (a) someone I could **** at my leisure or (b) someone I could hold hands with and lie next to from time to time, it would be a very easy choice.Click here if you're having trouble sleeping.
"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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Reject the tyranny of OR and embrace enlightenment of AND.“It is no use trying to 'see through' first principles. If you see through everything, then everything is transparent. But a wholly transparent world is an invisible world. To 'see through' all things is the same as not to see.”
― C.S. Lewis, The Abolition of Man
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Well, the ladies aren't exactly lining up for a night of anything with Lori, so it's rather a moot point.Click here if you're having trouble sleeping.
"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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Keep trying. It only takes one.“It is no use trying to 'see through' first principles. If you see through everything, then everything is transparent. But a wholly transparent world is an invisible world. To 'see through' all things is the same as not to see.”
― C.S. Lewis, The Abolition of Man
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Originally posted by pchang View PostKeep trying. It only takes one.Click here if you're having trouble sleeping.
"We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld
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I've rejected women with balloon breasts and tight asses because I refuse to be brought down by a female.
I might get shot. I might have a health related issue and die. I might get locked up in the insane asylum again (long-term.) But I'll be damned if a woman ruins my life.
BE DAMNED.The Wizard of AAHZ
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It's threads like this one that finally made me realize that current ACS posters are primarily kids.Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
"Hating America is something best left to Mobius. He is an expert Yank hater.
He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead
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Some of these posts lol. I'm glad I'm gay... Even in my relationship there is less of a hangup on sex. We know each other well enough to be honest... Certainly not using sex to gain leverage over the other lol.For there is [another] kind of violence, slower but just as deadly, destructive as the shot or the bomb in the night. This is the violence of institutions -- indifference, inaction, and decay. This is the violence that afflicts the poor, that poisons relations between men because their skin has different colors. - Bobby Kennedy (Mindless Menance of Violence)
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Originally posted by Lorizael View PostHave you had it? Do you recommend it? Is it unsafe? Immoral? Better or worse than in-relationship sex? Does the very thought of touching a person you're not emotionally intimate with cause you to shudder? Does the memory of a past dalliance fill you with revulsion and shame? Has a previous liaison ever ended so catastrophically that further interaction with the person induced panic attacks?"I hope I get to punch you in the face one day" - MRT144, Imran Siddiqui
'I'm fairly certain that a ban on me punching you in the face is not a "right" worth respecting." - loinburger
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