Another source characterizes passive-aggressive behavior as: "A personality trait marked by a pervasive pattern of negative attitudes and characterised by passive, sometimes obstructionist resistance to complying with expectations in interpersonal or occupational situations. Behaviors: Learned helplessness, procrastination, stubbornness, resentment, sullenness, or deliberate/repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible"
Or, more succinctly, "passive-aggressive" means opposing someone without making the opposition directly. If I am actually castigating Ken directly (using good manners, bad manners, or a string of f-bombs) I am by definition not being passive-aggressive.
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