Worry about that stuff after you **** her.
Announcement
Collapse
No announcement yet.
Woman told me she likes me. WHAT DO? NOW!!!
Collapse
X
-
looking back, I wished I asked out every girl I ever liked, where is the harm?Any views I may express here are personal and certainly do not in any way reflect the views of my employer. Tis the rising of the moon..
Look, I just don't anymore, okay?
Comment
-
Okay while everyone's making stupid jokes I still have not followed up with her after she told me about how her work schedule is. She's back this weekend but leaves on Monday for Canada and won't be back til Sept. 4th.
Again, keep in mind I work 7 days a week starting tonight.
Now what?"Flutie was better than Kelly, Elway, Esiason and Cunningham." - Ben Kenobi
"I have nothing against Wilson, but he's nowhere near the same calibre of QB as Flutie. Flutie threw for 5k+ yards in the CFL." -Ben Kenobi
Comment
-
...but you called me arrogant and close-minded and all we have done is argue. Women, how do they work? Arrogant and close-minded must be what she's into.
Whatever you do, DON'T try to be even more arrogant and close-minded.
You want to meet up with her in Maryland, so just tell her that. Then it just becomes a question of when, and you can continue to chat/argue while trying to schedule it. But if she says that won't work, just agree and ask what she has in mind.
Two more days have passed and you haven't responded? Analysis paralysis.Apolyton's Grim Reaper 2008, 2010 & 2011
RIP lest we forget... SG (2) and LaFayette -- Civ2 Succession Games Brothers-in-Arms
Comment
-
Originally posted by Al B. Sure! View PostAny thoughts on the whole "I find our difference *so* intriguing" thing? Is that a recipe for disaster?
Anyway, that doesn't seem like a clear danger sign to me. Overall, the scenario as you described it is cause for cautious almost-optimism. The fact that she knew you for a while and has some inkling of what you're like as a person makes this less likely to be a total wash.
Comment
-
ask her to meet you where you work, I'm sure she'll like a Big MacAny views I may express here are personal and certainly do not in any way reflect the views of my employer. Tis the rising of the moon..
Look, I just don't anymore, okay?
Comment
-
lol, double teamed - high five!Any views I may express here are personal and certainly do not in any way reflect the views of my employer. Tis the rising of the moon..
Look, I just don't anymore, okay?
Comment
-
Originally posted by -Jrabbit View PostYou are so dense, Alby. Do you really believe all couples must agree on politics? Are you incapable of compartmentalizing? She obviously has done so. What she finds *intriguing* is that she's attracted to you despite your differences.
Whatever you do, DON'T try to be even more arrogant and close-minded.
You want to meet up with her in Maryland, so just tell her that. Then it just becomes a question of when, and you can continue to chat/argue while trying to schedule it. But if she says that won't work, just agree and ask what she has in mind.
Two more days have passed and you haven't responded? Analysis paralysis.
So a few more days will pass without responding unless SOMEONE here tells me what to do! I leave for work in about an hour. It'd be nice to have something to say to her, right?
And no, Elok, she doesn't know me. We met one day when she was doing the IT stuff at the hotel I work at. I haven't seen her since or otherwise. She doesn't know me... unless you're saying her calling me arrogant and close-minded means she's a great assessor of character?"Flutie was better than Kelly, Elway, Esiason and Cunningham." - Ben Kenobi
"I have nothing against Wilson, but he's nowhere near the same calibre of QB as Flutie. Flutie threw for 5k+ yards in the CFL." -Ben Kenobi
Comment
-
...do you plan on having us walk you through it every step of the way? It's not going to happen, especially when/if it gets past a certain point:
"Okay, she's breathing a little heavier now, what do I do?"
"Start playing with her boobs a little."
"Like how--the nipples or the whole thing? Do I give more attention to the right one? She's right-handed."
"PUT DOWN THE DAMN SMARTPHONE!"
Anyway, work it out between the two of you. Stay in contact with her as much as possible. Even if you wind up just chatting long-distance for a while, that's not the end of the world. I chatted long-distance with my wife for a year before I even met her in person. Third anniversary's coming up in September. If she's that interested, you can work something out, even if it's just a cup of coffee while she's in town. Do the best you can. You're not going to get jack **** done if you keep leaning on us.
P.S. Do not mention the words "rape," "female," "Apolyton"...there are probably others, help me out here, folks.
Comment
-
you may be tired as hell, but your willy won't beAny views I may express here are personal and certainly do not in any way reflect the views of my employer. Tis the rising of the moon..
Look, I just don't anymore, okay?
Comment
-
Originally posted by Al B. Sure! View PostAnd no, Elok, she doesn't know me. We met one day when she was doing the IT stuff at the hotel I work at. I haven't seen her since or otherwise. She doesn't know me... unless you're saying her calling me arrogant and close-minded means she's a great assessor of character?
Comment
-
I think Az has a theory that I seem like the jerk type and that draws women in but when they find out I'm a forever alone virgin, they run away.
So her calling me arrogant but still being attracted (maybe even being attracted BECAUSE of it) is par for the course."Flutie was better than Kelly, Elway, Esiason and Cunningham." - Ben Kenobi
"I have nothing against Wilson, but he's nowhere near the same calibre of QB as Flutie. Flutie threw for 5k+ yards in the CFL." -Ben Kenobi
Comment
Comment