Woman told me she likes me. WHAT DO? NOW!!!

[MRT144]

The big city being New York City, right?

The City that Philly is an exurb of.

[Imran Siddiqui]

And no, I shouldn't give advice either, I've used a year now on liking a girl, she obviously liking me, and neither of us actually daring to do anything about it.

Just kiss her, dude!

[dannubis]

What could go wrong if she likes you Nikolai. Grow up.

[Al B. Sure!]

What could go wrong if she likes you Nikolai. Grow up.

*cough*

[Sava]

Ask if she swallows. If so, give me her number.

[Egbert]

No it's not, let's try to give Alby serious advice. He's asking for it, and who knows--maybe this time he'll take it for once.

I admire your optimism.

[Sava]

I have a profile on OKCupid that specifies "must swallow my ***". When active, I receive lots of messages.

[Ming]

But you shouldn't say things like that to Alby... he might consider it serious advice

[The Mad Monk]

Its Sava -- that is serious advice.

[Imran Siddiqui]

[OneFootInTheGrave]

run

[Proteus_MST]

run

I hope you know that this is a rather imprecise answer and will surely be followed by the question:

"Into which direction should I run?"

[OneFootInTheGrave]

South and if you reach the gulf of Mexico, go to Cuba. Settle there, wait until your city grows to three and than start building a worker.

[Al B. Sure!]

Okay so I'm still needing some responses, guys. She's back in Maryland for the weekend but I work.

Couldn't I also ask about meeting her in Maryland instead of just waiting for her to come to Philly?


Let me take a step back and explain how I've got where I am. She was working at my hotel on our IT and we started talking about politics. She's a pretty strong liberal and we kept arguing but her body language seemed interested. But she also called me 'arrogant and close-minded' so I didn't think it possible she was interested.

Fast forward and we're arguing on facebook when she sends me a message "I've decided I like you". I thought, but didn't say, but you called me arrogant and close-minded and all we have done is argue. Women, how do they work? Arrogant and close-minded must be what she's into.

So I respond back without directly saying I'm interested by saying "That's something we won't argue about".

I gave her my number but she was in Canada so couldn't call or text me.

She then said she wanted to know my views on cannabis because she smokes. I told her I'm not smoking or carrying it but what she does is her business.

She says, "I find our differences *so* intriguing". I say, "Why's that? I think arguing turns you on lol" I also asked her about her work and if it's regular 5 days a week traveling or in spurts.

She responds with "That comment made me laugh out loud. Perhaps you're correct"; She then explained how her work varies. She'll be back in MD today til Monday. I work, though, so I can't flip that into asking if she wants to meet up in Baltimore or something (she's not from Baltimore, but from a wealthy area to the west).

She has my number but hasn't called or text me. I haven't said anything else.

Now what?


Thank you

[snoopy369]

Ask if she's married. Always ask first.