Help Alby Get Sex. All Ideas Are Welcome.

[Provost Harrison]

you know how i know you're gay, right?

That would be such an easy solution to my problems, if it were true.

[Cort Haus]

you know how i know you're gay, right?

That's crap. It's perfectly possible to get on well with women as friends while simultaneously doing well in the relationship/sexual stakes. In some cases good-looking, intelligent and charismatic blokes who women are attracted to get resented by some men who are jealous of such qualities.

[Cort Haus]

matt, I Don't read your posts but if you were to use some paragraphs more people might.

[Zoetstofzoetje]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game:_Penetrating_the_Secret_Society_of_Pickup_Artists

buy this book and do those PUA meetings in Philly. and don't feel to proud for it, you need it. a friend of mine in Barcelona did this - he was a disaster with women despite being handsome, and is now 'ok' with them. which is radical improvement if you realize where he came from.

[Az]

this might be an ok crutch, yes.

[Al B. Sure!]

I've been to sosuave.net. How do you think I know some of these basic pickup artist stuff like Kino, the 2-day rule, etc.? Maybe I'm applying it wrong but it's not because I'm not knowledgeable of the techniques.

[giblets]

Yeah, I bet all women want to be with a "pick-up artist"

[Az]

Actually, it is funny, I have had a friend at my previous job who was a PUA. When he was trying to mentor others in the "art", he was always asking them to say that they are "players", not PUA.

Dude, it's sales and marketing all over again. Have you ever worked sales? Have you approached someone to interest them with a product? for most people, first rule is to believe that they are actually selling something great.

Believe in the product. The product is you. You do not believe in the product. You believe that you are entitled to a job/girls/etc. because you are educated/fit/etc. It does not work like this - these things help you, and then you have to wiggle about it to get a little bit further, and THEN you get it. Or not. and then you try again.

[Provost Harrison]

Isn't Kino a German cinema?

Anyway, yeah, in terms of personal salesmanship, when it comes to careerwise and my mental abilities, I have absolute faith in what I do...hence I am doing so well...backed up with a good reputation and good contacts, I'm an unstoppable force. But you'd think that some of that bravado would've spilled over into other areas of my life. In fact socially, it has. No confidence issues there either. But some areas prove to be trickier to make me believe my own crap than others.

[Pax]

Alby it is salesmanship. It is confidence. It is PUA/player. It is all those things and more. Get ready for next weekend. I can and others here can help you prepare and gain what you need to get a girlfriend if you are really willing to listen and take good advice. If you are willing to try let us all know.

[Pax]

If your reply is as it has been "Nothing works, girls just don't like me" then you haven't tried yet. The first step in trying is getting rid of the defeatist attitude. The battle can be lost before a shot is fired.

[self biased]

save your breath pax. i've freaking tried and failed.

frankly, i'm more uncomfortable with the thought of Alby eventually procreating than i am with reading his drivel here.

[SlowwHand]

Actually, it is funny, I have had a friend at my previous job who was a PUA. When he was trying to mentor others in the "art", he was always asking them to say that they are "players", not PUA.

Dude, it's sales and marketing all over again. Have you ever worked sales? Have you approached someone to interest them with a product? for most people, first rule is to believe that they are actually selling something great.

Believe in the product. The product is you. You do not believe in the product. You believe that you are entitled to a job/girls/etc. because you are educated/fit/etc. It does not work like this - these things help you, and then you have to wiggle about it to get a little bit further, and THEN you get it. Or not. and then you try again.

This is like "King of The Hill". Boomhauer was showing Bobby Hill the secret of his success with scoring women. His secret was to hit on every woman until one accepted. That was it.

[Cort Haus]

"Yeah man, I tell ya what, man, that dang ol’ internet, man, you just go in on there and point and click, talk about w-w-dot-w-com, mean you got the chicks on there, man, just go click, click, click, click, click, it’s dang ol' easy, man"

Boombonics

[SlowwHand]

That was great.