question for the married blokes

[MRT144]

What fluff??

Fluff = Backstory.

although that could be meta sexual. The hard working author and his hard driving editor who needs a tingle up her spine.

[David Floyd]

Did any of you come to a point where you ran out of things to try?

Our relationship has suddenly turned a lot more serious, so I'm thinking about it more lately and am starting to kind of worry about it. Please help.

Interesting question. So first off, let me get this out there - I am probably the biggest man-whore on Poly. With that said, I am kinda conservative when it comes to hooking up - as an example, I have zero interest in ever trying anal.

My point would be, sometimes it isn't about running out of variety, but running out of excitement. There are some women that I am super excited to sleep with, and the type of sex or position isn't that important. There are other women where it's just kinda...blah.

If your relationship is getting more serious, I doubt it has a thing to do with the sexual variety. That may be an important part, but I doubt it's the driving part. So in other words - have at it! You can always find new stuff to do, but hopefully you'll just keep doing the stuff you love to do. If in the meantime you craft a long-term relationship, even better.

Just my take, I could be full of ****.

[b etor]

I spent $368 at Lovers Lane today. FML why are clothes and toys so expensive?!

I'm not sure exactly why I was so worried about it. I have such an exciting night planned for him tomorrow. We were just kind of in a rut. A couple years ago we'd each get off at least 4 times a day, way more on weekends. It was more exciting then. I've also been off and on depressed, which was triggered by a suicide of a very close friend. But my guy was there for me all the time, emotionally. So that brought us closer together there, and further apart in bed because I was never in the mood.

You're right, David Floyd, we just ran out of excitement. But it's back!