question for the married blokes

[b etor]

This is a serious but somewhat inappropriate thread. But still a legitimate question.

So this one guy and I have been on and off seeing each other the past almost 2 years. We're quite adventurous in the sack. Like, if there is something weird out there, we've either done it and thought it was silly, done it and enjoyed it, or it's on our list of things to do. So I wonder. Should we slow it down? What if we end up together and run out of things to try? I used to be super against the butt stuff and just told people that was off limits cos I wanted to save something for my future husband guy, but the guy really wanted to do it. So I don't even have that anymore. Our life in bed is amazing, for sure. And it's lasted the better part of 2 years, with a few breaks in between.

We have our favorite handful of things, but most kinky things we try we just think are silly. I'll tell a few of my friends about it and they'll just get really grossed out.


Did any of you come to a point where you ran out of things to try?

Our relationship has suddenly turned a lot more serious, so I'm thinking about it more lately and am starting to kind of worry about it. Please help.

[Kuciwalker]

Since when do you use the word "bloke"?

[Asher]

I think she's in the UK now.

[Barnabas]

Getting married is about wanting someone so much that you would hate it or feel betrayed if you saw that person with someone else.

Sex is like reading, when you are young you read all kinds of things, when you get older, you only read the things you like, but you wouldn't know what you like if you had not read many different things when you were young.

[b etor]

Since when do you use the word "bloke"?

Since I was 11 or 12 and started reading books that took place outside the US. It just seemed like a good word to use.

[Zoetstofzoetje]

running out of things to try? believe you me, there's so many weird stuff out there sex-wise you don't even want to think about.. go to the sex museum in amsterdam, you'll see some of it.

[SlowwHand]

Getting married is about wanting someone so much that you would hate it or feel betrayed if you saw that person with someone else.

Sex is like reading, when you are young you read all kinds of things, when you get older, you only read the things you like, but you wouldn't know what you like if you had not read many different things when you were young.

There's some wisdom to this observation.

[Asher]

I always figured you were one for the kinks, Sloww.

[SlowwHand]

I came real close to letting my mouth overload my ass and suggest a person that knows about bondage; but then, realizing that all of that was all a lie, decided to just not.
You know what I mean.

[-Jrabbit]

If the relationship is just based on sex, just enjoy that and don't get married.

"Running out of things to try" is silly to worry about in this context.

[Asher]

I came real close to letting my mouth overload my ass and suggest a person that knows about bondage; but then, realizing that all of that was all a lie, decided to just not.
You know what I mean.

I think you should tell us more.

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Did any of you come to a point where you ran out of things to try?

I can think of many, many more things to do than I'd have realistic opportunities to attempt in one lifetime. The animal kingdom is huge, and offers so many possibilities.

[Asher]

In most states, that is illegal.

[notyoueither]

Birds has a different meaning over there.

[MikeH]

Serious answer: if things are getting more serious it's the areas of your relationship that have been weak you should concentrate on, not the ones that have been great.