"Love" is an imprecise and subjective word human beings have come up with to describe an extremely complicated set of feelings--it's not a single "emotion" as people are implying. It's also incredibly subjective, considering we have no real way of knowing if any two human beings experience "love" in the same way. Do you love your parents with the same feelings that I love my parents? There is just no way to really know. We use the word "love" to describe feeling towards people, but obviously feelings towards spouses/children are quite different than the feelings we have toward friends, music, artwork, food or any number of things we say we "love." It's completely useless to have this argument when there doesn't even exist a precise definition of what constitutes "love."
It seems to me some folks are treating "love" like the initial view of the atom, as if it were just a solid, single thing and it stopped there. In truth, of course, there is not a single solid thing, it's a structure made up of smaller bits, which are in turn made up of smaller bits, etc. Love is just like that--it's not a single emotion unto itself, it's just a word that describes a very large underlying structure of feelings and memories that intertwine. There's no such actual thing as "love" any more than there is an actual thing of "zero," so asking for a scientific explanation for "love" is a bit absurd.
It seems to me some folks are treating "love" like the initial view of the atom, as if it were just a solid, single thing and it stopped there. In truth, of course, there is not a single solid thing, it's a structure made up of smaller bits, which are in turn made up of smaller bits, etc. Love is just like that--it's not a single emotion unto itself, it's just a word that describes a very large underlying structure of feelings and memories that intertwine. There's no such actual thing as "love" any more than there is an actual thing of "zero," so asking for a scientific explanation for "love" is a bit absurd.
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