Cute Girl at Supermarket

[Ming]

No... he's saying he can't girls either

[ZEE]

no, Im a Buddhist so don't mess with me, chumps.

[Ming]

Yep... he can't get girls either

[OneFootInTheGrave]

Alex, how can you be so good in the press and so hopeless saying hello? The incompetence of the typical single young Polymale continues to astound me. I dunno, maybe I'm just so old, I can't remember how bad it is to be young. Maybe it's because it was the 70s and 80s. But damn, I used to get laid all time -- a classic serial monogamist. There's really nothing to it.

Q: Is it generational, or are you people really this socially inept?

you were not playing civ 12 hrs a day from 10yo-30yo in 60's and 70's

[MrFun]

So do I mention the fact that she's been eyeing me? Do I go up to her and say "Hey, I noticed you looking over at me, my name's Alex" ?

Or not mention it at all?

Ah, I have no idea how to start talking to her. "Hey, what's up" just seems awkward and like I'm not really interested. Grrr. Yes, I'm over thinking this, but yes I'm also clueless at starting up small talk like this. Grr.

Instead of growling (grr) from frustration, go back and read my post. It might help.

[Zevico]

Get married. It worked for Firelad.

[MikeH]

"I've been staring at you all day and I can't help it. I just have to know the name of your hairdresser!

Great advice, if you want to convince her you're a completely flaming gay stereotype.

[MikeH]

BTW never use my factoids about non-traditional wine closings with a girl. It's much too nerdy for me to even have mentioned here, if I hadn't been really drunk.

[Combat Ingrid]

You need to be careful about how you interpret her body language. When a woman is interested in a man, her body language will display certain subtle signs of her interest. However, they are easy to miss if you don't pay proper attention. In the video below three such signs will be shown between 0:22-0:33. You may need to replay the video a few times to catch them, but once you learn to spot them it will seem rather obvious.
Hope this was of any help to you

[OneFootInTheGrave]

[Caligastia]

One night I was out at a bar with a friend and asked these two girls if they wanted to play pool. My friend was a lot like Ozzy. A nervous wreck. Asking them to play pool about did him in. When I asked them later in the evening if they wanted to go get breakfast, he almost fell apart. Actually, we did go to their place after going to eat.

and...?

[Caligastia]

So do I mention the fact that she's been eyeing me? Do I go up to her and say "Hey, I noticed you looking over at me, my name's Alex" ?

Or not mention it at all?

Ah, I have no idea how to start talking to her. "Hey, what's up" just seems awkward and like I'm not really interested. Grrr. Yes, I'm over thinking this, but yes I'm also clueless at starting up small talk like this. Grr.

She's a checkout girl...it couldn't be much easier. The ice is already broken somewhat just by you buying something, saying hi hows it going. Just ask her if she would like to see a movie with you after work.

[dannubis]

You need to be careful about how you interpret her body language. When a woman is interested in a man, her body language will display certain subtle signs of her interest. However, they are easy to miss if you don't pay proper attention. In the video below three such signs will be shown between 0:22-0:33. You may need to replay the video a few times to catch them, but once you learn to spot them it will seem rather obvious.
Hope this was of any help to you

Yes, for undercooled Scandinavian types this is how i works...

[Elok]

She's a checkout girl...it couldn't be much easier. The ice is already broken somewhat just by you buying something, saying hi hows it going. Just ask her if she would like to see a movie with you after work.

Pretty much. The more you try to analyze and plan things, the more nervous you'll be.

[rah]

Yeah, she's probably already fantasizing about having your babies, while you're still not confident enough to say "HI"