Cute Girl at Supermarket

[dannubis]

In Asia maybe !

[Aeson]

I'm not saying it's a good idea... just that it's being straightforward. Asking some girl out for coffee when what you really want is sex is not straightforward.

[Jon Miller]

But who really wants non-intimate sex?

JM

[dannubis]

I'm not saying it's a good idea... just that it's being straightforward. Asking some girl out for coffee when what you really want is sex is not straightforward.

By the time you even get to ask her out for coffee she already checked you out multiple times. How is that straightforward. Hell, women by definition are not straightforward.

[Lorizael]

But who really wants non-intimate sex?

JM

Everyone who engages in casual sex or solicits prostitutes?

[rah]

All males are genetically programmed to desire sex. I don't think intimate or non-intimate is part of the encoding. That is self imposed, usually using artificial definitions.

[Jon Miller]

Your statements do not agree at all with my own experience or perceptions.

JM

[rah]

I'll agree that intimate is preferred, but that is acquired. When I was younger, that had no place in the equation.

[Ogie Oglethorpe]

Dude, just ask for her number/when she gets off. Women decide whether they're interested within the first 30 seconds just like men. Don't be creepy, be friendly, smile. If she says no there's probably not much you could have done.

QFT



That and of all places asking poly for help with girls

[OzzyKP]

I'll agree that intimate is preferred, but that is acquired. When I was younger, that had no place in the equation.

Everyone is different. I suppose there are some guys who are just fine sleeping with random girls they meet at the bar and then never talk to again. Others are never interested in that.

[Lorizael]

Your statements do not agree at all with my own experience or perceptions.

JM

They don't agree with my experience, either, but it's still the truth. Plenty of people are perfectly willing to engage in meaningless sex.

[MikeH]

All males are genetically programmed to desire sex.

As are all females.

[rah]

Yeah, but they were first to figure out that they can get something out of the deal. For the male, his attention span isn't long enough.

[Flubber]

But who really wants non-intimate sex?

JM

You are kidding right ?

I'll assume that sex with strong emotional attachment can be the very very best sex. (It has been for me)

But that doesn't mean that sex with a stranger cannot feel freaking amazing and that such sex wouldn't be desired by an lot of guys

[Jon Miller]

I sometimes wonder if I am the odd one.

JM