Is sex better before or after marriage?

[Kontiki]

If "in general" then it depends on who else, besides your wife, you've slept with I guess. I mean... you could've had totally awesome sex with a prior girlfriend when you were 18 that > your current married, 30something-year old sex life. But then you probably felt better generally when you were 18, your hormones were off the charts, etc. So duh. But it tells you nothing about marriage.

-Arrian

Well, it does tell you that you needn't be married to experience fantastic sex, nor does the state of marriage necessarily mean the best possible sex. And on that note, Ozzy is somewhat closer to the mark, minus the implied dichotomy.

[Solomwi]

Or even more specific your wife doesn't have to blow you any more after marriage. Which is the main reason why before marriage wins.

Only if she stops. If she keeps doing so after marriage, it's not because she has to, which makes it even better. I voted after, incidentally.

[Metaliturtle]

Much better after.

[Asher]

Who is this clown, polluting my poll?

Can a mod please ban him.

[Metaliturtle]

I've reported my post as it offends those who disagree w/Asher.

[Robert]

So, you are having sex with this girl, then you marry her, and the sex becomes terrible?
Nah, I don't believe that. I polluted the poll a bit more.

[Asher]

I'm seeing lots of Christians who apparently had premarital sex.

Then lie about it after about how it's better once the knot was tied.

[Robert]

I've reported my post as it offends those who disagree w/Asher.

which resulted in me visiting this thread, poluting the poll even more, offending Asher&Co beyond all limits.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Y'all know your wives aren't reading this, right?

[Asher]

This poll has been compromised.

As President, I am declaring the 3 votes for better "after" to be invalid.

[Robert]

I'm seeing lots of Christians who apparently had premarital sex.

Then lie about it after about how it's better once the knot was tied.

Name and Shame

btw, according to the Bible there's not such a thing in christianity as pre-martial sex. Sex is the start of marriage in the Bible. There are no endless chapters about "Don't have sex before marriage".
I'm always being bored by those guys who try to persuade young girls to promise to never have sex before marriage. If that's all christianity has to say about sex

[Sava]

I would imagine it depends on the woman.

[Solomwi]

This poll has been compromised.

As President, I am declaring the 3 votes for better "after" to be invalid.

If it makes you feel better, I only voted after in the knowledge that I'm in an uncommon situation, and wouldn't generalize my vote beyond that. If it doesn't, then **** YOU, MR. PRESIDENT, AND THE DUDE HORSE YOU RODE IN ON.

[Garth Vader]

So, you are having sex with this girl, then you marry her, and the sex becomes terrible?
Nah, I don't believe that. I polluted the poll a bit more.

It doesn't become terrible, just not as good as before.

[Robert]

It doesn't become terrible, just not as good as before.

So... just marrying makes a different......

Well, perhaps the problem here is that much couples marry b/c they try to 'save' their marriage. So they marry when they are already becoming less satisfied ().
Then nothing changes, of course, so the woman gives up.

That's why you should always marry at the beginning when there's actually a party to celbrate, and not having a party 10 years later, when actually nothing is changing.

It's like celebrating your birthday 5 months after your... birthday, or telling your parent you got a son when he's actually 13.