Lost items department: Your virginity

[Lorizael]

Depends on the context of the conversation surely? Sometimes, some things are more serious...

No, there's no reason to take anything on the internet seriously ever. It's too ripe an environment for miscommunication. I'm willing to bet you completely missed the point I was actually trying to make, rendering your "tone" completely unnecessary.

[Lorizael]

I had no idea Jesus was into

dp.

[Alinestra Covelia]

on a related note, where's a good place to find out how to have sex? I mean doing it the proper way (to make the woman feel good and stuff ). Is it really like how it is in porn? Do real people have sex that way?

There are some really good love scenes (as described from a female perspective) in the "Earth's Children" novels by Jean M. Auel. Pick up "The Valley of Horses" and go to the end of the novel - the male lead is having sex with the female lead for the first time. He's not a virgin, and she technically isn't, but all the times she's had sex before were fairly traumatic and he's having to be very gentle and tender to her. And it works.

[Traianvs]

Perhaps she based that on personal real life experiences

[Gibsie]

Pffffrp, tender and gentle, that's not what good sex is all about

[Alinestra Covelia]

Perhaps she based that on personal real life experiences

She didn't look like that when she wrote Valley. She was in her 20s or early 30s when she wrote it, and her photo on the inner jacket cover was very striking.

[Sirotnikov]

on a related note, where's a good place to find out how to have sex? I mean doing it the proper way (to make the woman feel good and stuff ). Is it really like how it is in porn? Do real people have sex that way?

"The Guide to Getting It On" is quote good for a primer.

Beyond that, you just start and roll with it.

Be very attentive, and ask what she likes, but not too annoying.