What's a good way to keep women off you?

[Solomwi]

Take her out to dinner. Take her to bed. Do whatever else it may be you want to do with her, but jeezum crowe, man, go ahead and do it or mark this one as a lost opportunity, put it behind you completely and move forward.

[Dis]

wrath of khan thread go me thinking. Tell her I like Star Trek! I already told her I like Metal and Classical- you'd think that would of scared her away already lol. I like how she thinks she can find me a gf who likes the same things I do. I don't think there's a woman on this planet who likes both metal and classical. Almost none listen to metal (real metal that is). Those that do have serious issues lol. Mostly evil women. Which begs the question.

Am I evil? I am certain now I am not (in the past I had my doubts). I am fascinated by evil though. I'm not sure why.

[Solomwi]

Plenty of us are fascinated by evil. It's far more interesting than good, because good has a more or less defined set of parameters, while each instance of evil is evil in its own special way.

[Jon Miller]

honesty has never worked with me before lol. But I am getting to that point I will tell her. Once I trust her a little more with such info.

I have ~100% success, and I do this.

JM

[Dis]

problem solved. This thread can be closed now.

I managed to piss her off, now she's not talking to me. I have a knack for pissing women off. I'm not sure how I do it. I always seem to say or do the wrong thing to piss them off and they never speak to me again. It's happened to me a few times, and I never find out what I did wrong (kind of hard when they don't speak to you ). I didn't say anything wrong or suggestive. In fact, I tried to keep everything business like and professional and concentrate on my work. Women need to understand the work place is not for fun and it's not a singles bar.

Anyways I feel pretty stupid getting excited over a woman. I told myself I would not let myself do this again. I'm a loner, and I need to realize this. I think I subconciously through my body language push women away. That's the only explanation. I push them away because I want to be alone.

I'm going to take some time to reflect on this. And kinda do a binge and purge.

So I'm pretty embarrassed. I'm going to take off for a while. Thanks for all the responses. Some were helpful. Take care every one, and remember not to do as I would do.

I'll be back. I shall return stronger than ever.

[-Jrabbit]

Nice seeing you, Dis. Don't be a stranger.

[Jon Miller]

Glad it worked out for you.

JM

[Theben]

Mentioning that she flirts with other guys could mean she's an office flirt, but that doesn't mean she wouldn't have dated someone if they had asked. You're probably right in that you do subconsciously, or consciously, push women away. The inner reflecting sounds like a good idea.

Oh, and just b/c you pissed her off doesn't mean you can't patch things up and date. How many times do you think guys with women piss them off?

[Fake Boris]

Yes.

This thread is so depressing it sounds like a joke. Dis, you're looking for a pretext not to ask her out.

[divideand...]

Ask Al Bundy.

[Heraclitus]

problem solved. This thread can be closed now.

I managed to piss her off, now she's not talking to me. I have a knack for pissing women off. I'm not sure how I do it. I always seem to say or do the wrong thing to piss them off and they never speak to me again. It's happened to me a few times, and I never find out what I did wrong (kind of hard when they don't speak to you ). I didn't say anything wrong or suggestive. In fact, I tried to keep everything business like and professional and concentrate on my work. Women need to understand the work place is not for fun and it's not a singles bar.

Anyways I feel pretty stupid getting excited over a woman. I told myself I would not let myself do this again. I'm a loner, and I need to realize this. I think I subconciously through my body language push women away. That's the only explanation. I push them away because I want to be alone.

I'm going to take some time to reflect on this. And kinda do a binge and purge.

So I'm pretty embarrassed. I'm going to take off for a while. Thanks for all the responses. Some were helpful. Take care every one, and remember not to do as I would do.

I'll be back. I shall return stronger than ever.

Have you even read this thread?


Dis you are using this thread to excuse yourself. But still I'm fascinated, can you tell us more about what made her angry? Also how is she like at work?

[Alinestra Covelia]

A chastity patch. Works every time.

[Solomwi]

A chastity patch. Works every time.

But doesn't it hurt getting sewn on?

[Alinestra Covelia]

No, just apply to the back of the neck.

[Jon Miller]

*tries to look at back of neck*

JM