Lack of desire to do it

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Flubber


Why would that be a source of pride?

I can see having pride about dick size or endurance or the ability to perform certain acts well and to the great satisfaction of a partner . .. . . but insatiable appetite??

Being proud of that is a losing battle. Most men go from being pretty much " everready" in their teens and then find that ability gets reduced as they age.

because there are many beneficiaries of said appetite.

[Jon Miller]

I don't really see the issue. You just have more important things in your life right now.

Although most men do find that their libido starts to decrease in their mid to late 20s.

JM

[DanS]

Re: Lack of desire to do it

MRT is well on his way toward upper management.

This falls under the header of "advanced time management skills."

[MRT144]

Re: Re: Lack of desire to do it

Originally posted by DanS
MRT is well on his way toward upper management.

This falls under the header of "advanced time management skills."

the thing of note is, I still have sex, and I still get things done that need doing.

it's just a worry of mine that im on a slippery slope of forsaking sex for work and school for the rest of my life.

[Asher]

Less women. Seriously. They are needy.

With guys, you can call, hook up, go home and "read".

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Asher
Less women. Seriously. They are needy.

With guys, you can call, hook up, go home and "read".

and i do live in the gay district...

[Asher]

[Barnabas]

The same happened to me when I was 22-23

When I was 18 I could not understand couples who had sex only twice a week, now I do.

[Barnabas]

I wonder if nature wants us to breed the most when we are 18-19, and if teen pregnancies are actually good in some biological way

[Arrian]

I thought that was pretty obvious...

-Arrian

[Patroklos]

If you need someone to take up the slack, give me a call

[Flubber]

MRT

MY advice if you don't want to have sex right now is don't have sex right now. Abstain for a few days or a week and then see where you desire goes. I'm betting that you will discover a new enthusiasm.

I like chocolate cake . . .. but it doesn't mean that I don't want steak and potatoes from time to time and it doesn't mean I don't need other foods to make me healthy.


So abstain for a few days . . . don't even self-pleasure. I'll bet you find your next time to be much more anticipated and enjoyed.


I really don't see much different here than other things. You might want a computer and the price is too much or want a burger late at night but not be willing to get dressed and walk the 10 blocks required (but woyuld order in a sec if they had delivery). Just because you want something doesn't mean you are always willing to do what is needed to get it.

If you are banging one or the other of these girls every night, abstain for a few days and then try to get a less frequent pattern. You will soon hit a comfort zone

Oh and I'm betting that if you started up with a new hottie, you would once again be willing to give up sleep for sex for a while.

[DanS]

Re: Re: Re: Lack of desire to do it

Originally posted by MRT144
the thing of note is, I still have sex, and I still get things done that need doing.

it's just a worry of mine that im on a slippery slope of forsaking sex for work and school for the rest of my life.

Ever heard of the 95-5 rule? 5% of your customers cause 95% of the headache. Customers can be fired too.

I don't think that your situation is beyond management.

[MRT144]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Lack of desire to do it

Originally posted by DanS


Ever heard of the 95-5 rule? 5% of your customers cause 95% of the headache. Customers can be fired too.

I don't think that your situation is beyond management.

80-20 rule...

but yeah, I know, it's just me wanting to confirm the cause of this feeling...

[Lazerus]

Really seems like you are bored with the shallow routine and now that something stressful is in your life you're cutting out as much of the almost time wasting activities as possible.

I'd go with what Flubbers saying, ignore both girls and don't do anything for awhile. Get on top of work and then go find a girl you actually want, the chase and the fact you can't just say "now please" will stir up some frustration that will kick the drive back in.