Lack of desire to do it

[MRT144]

i'm 23, good shape, work and go to school full time.

im just beginning to feel like im losing my sex drive. I find myself wanting to do so many other more important things besides have sex.

currently i have sex with 2 different girls (not together at the same time) but all they want to do is come over to my place and when they come over, have sex, and hang out and get drunk. I'd be fine with that in the past. Hell more than fine but dude, I'm ****ing busy and dont want to be busy ****ing.

Is this something that happens to all 23 year olds or all busy people or some of both?

[Cort Haus]

You're not old yet, it's because you're busy.

[Apocalypse]

I hear people our age (22-23) whine about this a lot actually. They are scared enough to even mention it to other people.

[Kuciwalker]

Don't worry, Asher might be moving to Seattle soon.

[Bkeela]

I have the same problem. Girls want to have sex with me left, right, and centre, but I've become bored of sex. Plus the chaffing is really bad.

Such is life I suppose.

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Kuciwalker
Don't worry, Asher might be moving to Seattle soon.

this will not improve the understanding of the nature of the problem.

[Kuciwalker]

As long as it goes away, does it matter?

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Apocalypse
I hear people our age (22-23) whine about this a lot actually. They are scared enough to even mention it to other people.

but see, I am actually concerned about this. For 11 years I have prided myself on my insatiable sexual appetite and now I desire to read books and do math homework more than have sex.

its worrisome.

[Apocalypse]

Yes, and everyone else our age that mentions it. I think it just goes out around this time for most people. I haven't noticed yet, but I really haven't had a really steady relationship, just play on the weekends.

[LordShiva]

Do some deadlifts. The resulting fresh infusion of T should cure this problem.

[Apocalypse]

It's not testosterone. Asher has a lot but no desire for sex with girls.

[MRT144]

Originally posted by LordShiva
Do some deadlifts. The resulting fresh infusion of T should cure this problem.

but what does testosterone have to do with keeping a 3.8 gpa?

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Kuciwalker
As long as it goes away, does it matter?

its like telling guys who are balding that it doesnt matter. even though having hair has been a part of their identity for years.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Your bored with sex, is all i can think of either that or you have just realized that a career and job are more important then a boner, satisfied by the same ole routine.

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
Your bored with sex, is all i can think of either that or you have just realized that a career and job are more important then a boner, satisfied by the same ole routine.

arent they?