Lifes Choices

[FrostyBoy]

Well, most of you know about me and my fiance by now.

Now look what has happened:

1. We have broken up (or rather, she dumped me because I am not a Christian anymore)
2. I now have to find a place in Singapore to live, which is almost impossible.
3. I have to live in this house with my ex-girlfriend in the mean time, hating every second of it.
because.. 4. I have now realised that she never actually loved me at all, she just couldn't bare to "dump" me. She finally had an excuse (me leaving church).
5. I am completely alone in this country, which I still consider myself to be foreign to.
6. I can't return to New Zealand because if I do, I will have to get a very crappy job, which will lead me to nowhere. And I don't really have the money to return.

Man I feel completely lost and trapped.

I HATE Christianity.

Sorry, I am just venting myself.

[Frozzy]

A very crappy job? What makes you think that?

[Sava]

you can come over to my house and get stoned with me and play video games

[Dinner]

You should have followed my advice and not brought this to a head until you had saved up enough money for an exit plan.

[KrazyHorse]

Priority number one should have been to convince the ***** to either give you anal or set up a 3-way with her and one of her friends. Immediately following said sex act, you are supposed to dump her. This would have been the one way to regain your self-respect after having groveled at her wacko church for months on end. It would probably have been prudent to set up alternate living arrangements prior to pulling this stunt, but a miscalculation like that can be forgiven.

The way you handled this is ****ing amateur hour.

[KrazyHorse]

I agree with Oerdin on the practical side of things here. Don't jump ship until you're sure there's a lifeboat around.

But damnit, you're supposed to go out with style.

[Sava]

KH is my hero

[KrazyHorse]

Anyway, the plus side (despite having botched the dump) is that now you get to start plugging some non-psycho girl.

[KrazyHorse]

Don't get too down on yourself. You'll pick up some other girl and things will be much better for you than they were when you were dealing with crazy *****'s cult ****.

You can make your new girlfriend feel great about herself by telling her occasionally (please, not too often) how nice it is to be with a normal, caring girl like her.

Play this negative into a positive.

[Dinner]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
Anyway, the plus side (despite having botched the dump) is that now you get to start plugging some non-psycho girl.

The crazy canuck has it right.

[Jon Miller]

Why in the world do you blame Christianity for your issues with her?

Based upon how you described her church, I as a Christian, would not have been a member...

In this whole situation you haven't really acted very logically.

Jon Miller

[KrazyHorse]

He is wrong to blame all of Christianity.

He is right to have wanted to get as far away from her lame-ass cult as possible. He should also realise that he himself is to blame for allowing the crazy lady to have manipulated him into a lifestyle he wanted no part of.

[Jon Miller]

Oh, yeah, I agree. Leaving is a good thing.

I am also thinking of his whole science is god post in the earlier thread also.

Jon Miller

[KrazyHorse]

Don't recall that. Read the opening post last time, gave my advice and got out.

[Jon Miller]

I am also real good with advice, and saying to be logical and all that, to people in relationships when I have never been in one..

JM