The college admissions process has gotten a lot more competitive over the last three or four years, and we're to the point now where schools are getting more competitive every year. There were four or five schools that I really wanted to go to that were all very competitive, but I didn't get into any of them. Here is how my college process turned out (in order of how badly I wanted to go to the school):
Stretch schools
1. Amherst-waitlisted
2. Williams-don't know (won't get in, Williams is more competitive, and the only reason I got into Amherst was because of a connection and a damn good and creative supplementary essay, and Williams didn't have a supplementary essay).
Maybe schools:
3. Dartmouth-rejected
4. Middlebury-waitlisted
5. Bowdoin-waitlisted
Shoe-in schools:
6. Boston College-waitlisted
And I don't have nearly the desire to go to either of these two as any of the six above, the first I applied to because the application was free and to be careful I wanted another safety school, the second was for a shot at a scholarship that I don't think will pan out:
7. Colgate-accepted
8. Holy Cross-accepted
No one on the waiting list ends going to the school pretty much (at Amherst 30 of 977 went last year), so I will most likely end up at the bottom two. I am disappointed, because they aren't nearly as selective as some of the ones I wanted to go to. But how much does selectivity really matter? I do think I will go to grad school in something, so I think that will make a difference. And it probably depends on what you're studying. I think I'll major in English, hopefully with a concentration with creative writing, but I could see myself also studying Philosophy, Anthropology, Sociology, Psychology, a foreign language (I plan on studying abroad), and/or Religious Studies.
But how much will the selectivity effect my overall college experience and education? A lot of people are telling me competitiveness doesn't matter, but if that is the case, was it a mistake for me to go to a very expensive, competitive school when I probably could have gone to a lower calibre private school (such as Seattle University or University of San Fransisco or Carroll College or some place like that) for cheaper, or a state school (especially a lower calibre one like University of Idaho) for very cheap?
My parents are not rich, and because my dad is a landlord and owns a lot of property, we probably won't get any financial help. And I think I want to go to grad school on top of that. So moneywise, the next 10 years are probably going to be pretty scary. I am hoping it is worth it. What are your thoughts?
Stretch schools
1. Amherst-waitlisted
2. Williams-don't know (won't get in, Williams is more competitive, and the only reason I got into Amherst was because of a connection and a damn good and creative supplementary essay, and Williams didn't have a supplementary essay).
Maybe schools:
3. Dartmouth-rejected
4. Middlebury-waitlisted
5. Bowdoin-waitlisted
Shoe-in schools:
6. Boston College-waitlisted
And I don't have nearly the desire to go to either of these two as any of the six above, the first I applied to because the application was free and to be careful I wanted another safety school, the second was for a shot at a scholarship that I don't think will pan out:
7. Colgate-accepted
8. Holy Cross-accepted
No one on the waiting list ends going to the school pretty much (at Amherst 30 of 977 went last year), so I will most likely end up at the bottom two. I am disappointed, because they aren't nearly as selective as some of the ones I wanted to go to. But how much does selectivity really matter? I do think I will go to grad school in something, so I think that will make a difference. And it probably depends on what you're studying. I think I'll major in English, hopefully with a concentration with creative writing, but I could see myself also studying Philosophy, Anthropology, Sociology, Psychology, a foreign language (I plan on studying abroad), and/or Religious Studies.
But how much will the selectivity effect my overall college experience and education? A lot of people are telling me competitiveness doesn't matter, but if that is the case, was it a mistake for me to go to a very expensive, competitive school when I probably could have gone to a lower calibre private school (such as Seattle University or University of San Fransisco or Carroll College or some place like that) for cheaper, or a state school (especially a lower calibre one like University of Idaho) for very cheap?
My parents are not rich, and because my dad is a landlord and owns a lot of property, we probably won't get any financial help. And I think I want to go to grad school on top of that. So moneywise, the next 10 years are probably going to be pretty scary. I am hoping it is worth it. What are your thoughts?
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