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Truth for Youth be Yarrr and woo"You're the biggest user of hindsight that I've ever known. Your favorite team, in any sport, is the one that just won. If you were a woman, you'd likely be a slut." - Slowwhand, to Imran
Eschewing silly games since December 4, 2005
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I can't be bothered to read back but IF you actually feel sexual urges, I can't imagine what the problem could be. Don't overthink!! Rub yourself, feel pleasure clean yourself up . . . repeat as needed.
If you don't feel desire, don't masturbate!!
What should I do? I'm not sure about continuing to hold it back.Last edited by johncmcleod; November 11, 2005, 20:25."The first man who, having fenced off a plot of land, thought of saying, 'This is mine' and found people simple enough to believe him was the real founder of civil society. How many crimes, wars, murders, how many miseries and horrors might the human race had been spared by the one who, upon pulling up the stakes or filling in the ditch, had shouted to his fellow men: 'Beware of listening to this imposter; you are lost if you forget the fruits of the earth belong to all and that the earth belongs to no one." - Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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I won't masturbate because if I do, that means I'll either look at porn or I'll imagine things in my head.
Yes. What's wrong with that again?
I don't want to be another one of those lusty, shallow males that there seems to be so many of.
Dude, there's nothing shallow about masturbating or even lust any more than there is about eating. The only thing that can reasonably be called shallow is mistaking lust for love.
If I look at porn, it will objectify women, cheapen my view of sex so that I see it as more physical and less affectionate, make me more lusty and shallow, etc.
Jesus Christ, you ARE exactly like the ****ing dumbass in the Truth for Youth comic!
What should I do? I'm not sure about continuing to hold it back.
Take the DL's advice.
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Most people view porn negatively, and it promotes lusty, unaffectionate sex. Whether or not you confuse lust with love, watching porn is going to have an effect on you, at least subconsciously. It will change your sexuality, and I don't think there is anything you can do to stop this. But what really scares me is that a lot of people get addicted to it. I think there are psychological problems with it that we probably don't understand, and the fact that it is something that you can get addicted to (in fact I've heard an internet porn addiction is as strong as an addiction to nicotine) sets off some red flags in my mind. Not because I am afraid I'll get addicted to it (but that could be a valid concern, being addicted to porn would be horrible), but anything that someone can get addicted to is not something to be taken lightly and should be viewed with suspicion. It seems to me that it is something that is quite powerful that shouldn't be messed with."The first man who, having fenced off a plot of land, thought of saying, 'This is mine' and found people simple enough to believe him was the real founder of civil society. How many crimes, wars, murders, how many miseries and horrors might the human race had been spared by the one who, upon pulling up the stakes or filling in the ditch, had shouted to his fellow men: 'Beware of listening to this imposter; you are lost if you forget the fruits of the earth belong to all and that the earth belongs to no one." - Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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Most people view porn negatively
Actually, most people view it positively.
and it promotes lusty, unaffectionate sex
So?
Whether or not you confuse lust with love, watching porn is going to have an effect on you, at least subconsciously. It will change your sexuality, and I don't think there is anything you can do to stop this. But what really scares me is that a lot of people get addicted to it.
Stop playing Civ then.
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John there is something you know about yourself but you won't admit it. It's like stuck deep down.
All of your posts go back to the same theme, "I just wrote an entire page long about how normal I am but I want something more but I don't know what it is."
Nobody spends THAT much time doing self-contemplation unless there is something about themselves they won't be honest with themselves about.
I think you're skating around it but won't go in for the kill. Maybe it's something painful or maybe you think it's something too silly that a "tough guy" like you should be ashamed about and you should just "suck it up and be a man" about it.
So what exactly is the problem?
We don't expect you to share that kind of information with us (I'd prefer you didn't) here, but go talk to someone about it. PLEASE.We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham Lincoln
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Originally posted by johncmcleod
The thing is though I think most guys are really shallow and lusty. Get a group of guys together talking about sex and you'll see what I mean. I think there is a problem with the male sex drive. The majority of molesters are male. I think all rapists are male (obviously with a few one in a million exceptions). Way more males masturbate than females, and this is statistically proven. More males look at porn, too. Males also tend to be more into the physical aspects of the relationship. Males also tend to view sex as a means to get physical pleasure rather than an act expressing affection.
I don't want to be like that.
And this comes from someone who was exposed early to porn"I have been reading up on the universe and have come to the conclusion that the universe is a good thing." -- Dissident
"I never had the need to have a boner." -- Dissident
"I have never cut off my penis when I was upset over a girl." -- Dis
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Originally posted by Dis
what I find difficult to accept is there's not a single women in the entire world that will go out with me.
Maybe you are just too desperate. Women avoid desperate men like the plague.
Originally posted by Dis
Women want a man who is experienced, but how can I get experienced when women don't want inexperienced men?(\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
(='.'=) "Claims demand evidence; extraordinary claims demand extraordinary evidence." -- Carl Sagan
(")_(") "Starting the fire from within."
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Originally posted by johncmcleod
Whether or not you confuse lust with love, watching porn is going to have an effect on you, at least subconsciously. It will change your sexuality, and I don't think there is anything you can do to stop this.
Does playing violent games make you a raving mass murderer?
Originally posted by johncmcleod
But what really scares me is that a lot of people get addicted to it.
So I am not sure where you got that from, either.(\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
(='.'=) "Claims demand evidence; extraordinary claims demand extraordinary evidence." -- Carl Sagan
(")_(") "Starting the fire from within."
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Originally posted by Dis
how does one become confident and comfortable?
you just knew I was going to ask that.
2. Work out(\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
(='.'=) "Claims demand evidence; extraordinary claims demand extraordinary evidence." -- Carl Sagan
(")_(") "Starting the fire from within."
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John there is something you know about yourself but you won't admit it. It's like stuck deep down.
All of your posts go back to the same theme, "I just wrote an entire page long about how normal I am but I want something more but I don't know what it is."
Nobody spends THAT much time doing self-contemplation unless there is something about themselves they won't be honest with themselves about.
I think you're skating around it but won't go in for the kill. Maybe it's something painful or maybe you think it's something too silly that a "tough guy" like you should be ashamed about and you should just "suck it up and be a man" about it.
So what exactly is the problem?
We don't expect you to share that kind of information with us (I'd prefer you didn't) here, but go talk to someone about it. PLEASE.
But I definitely am honest with myself. Brutally honest. Like sometimes I discover things about myself that I don't like at all, sometimes I discover that I am not as good a person as I thought I was. But this is honesty, I never hide anything from myself. I think it has been a good thing. I just tend to over-analyze everything, I think too much. I have always had that problem, but I don't believe it is anything that requires professional help. I am not a 'tough-guy,' but I am just too happy and well-functioning to get expensive, professional 'help' that probably doesn't help in the first place.
Actually, most people view it positively.
According to what?
Does playing violent games make you a raving mass murderer?
So I am not sure where you got that from, either."The first man who, having fenced off a plot of land, thought of saying, 'This is mine' and found people simple enough to believe him was the real founder of civil society. How many crimes, wars, murders, how many miseries and horrors might the human race had been spared by the one who, upon pulling up the stakes or filling in the ditch, had shouted to his fellow men: 'Beware of listening to this imposter; you are lost if you forget the fruits of the earth belong to all and that the earth belongs to no one." - Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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