obession or devotion

[Lancer]

"im trying to analyze some past relationships."

Beware of analyzing future ones to death. Western women tend to do this, driving men out the door trying to figure out what's wrong with them...or nagging...


Helpful hints there.

[boann]

oh im not a nagger.. nor have i ever been on a crusade to change anyone.
in my experience.. its been the man who was those things. they always seem to think with a little hard work and disipline they can make me over into "fantasy girl" im just trying to figure out how "not" to become "project babe" next time.

[Japher]

get a project guy, that way change will be a "compromise"

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by Lancer
"im trying to analyze some past relationships."

Beware of analyzing future ones to death. Western women tend to do this, driving men out the door trying to figure out what's wrong with them...or nagging...


Helpful hints there.

Analyzing relationships is good, but controling people is not. Men need to do more analyzing and everyone needs to do less controling.

[Lancer]

boann, maybe you don't pick the right guy. I've found many women go for a certain type of look, and are shocked when they are vain and just want to change their women as they have themselves...appearance wise. Women often go for pretty boys...not men.

So men go to the Philippines.

[Lancer]

"Men need to do more analyzing"

Blah, you think too much.

[boann]

i know i don't pick the right guys... thats why im in therapy... and why im analyzing the past.... duh...

and no i don't go for pretty boys... ive been attracted to those ruff around the edges.. macho males...
which is the whole problem.. i think..
maybe i just need to find "nice quiet nerdboy" who won't give me any ---- lol ... its a joke for those with no humor..

[Lancer]

"maybe i just need to find "nice quiet nerdboy""

Lady, did you ever come to the right place!

[Kidlicious]

boann,

What do you mean "macho" men - the kind that are only in love with themselves? If so then yes, you need to figure out why you are attracted to this type.

[Japher]

HEY! I'm mean, loud, and stupid!!!

crap, more ammo for Tehban.

[boann]

Originally posted by Lancer
"maybe i just need to find "nice quiet nerdboy""

Lady, did you ever come to the right place!

well ive been around here for 6 years..
i came for the GAME not for the men
besides the ones my age are taken and the ones
not taken are too green for me i prefer mine with a little more dust on the bottle

[Lancer]

Yeah, we're kinda deep in fruit juice around here.

[boann]

Originally posted by Kidicious
boann,

What do you mean "macho" men - the kind that are only in love with themselves? If so then yes, you need to figure out why you are attracted to this type.

by macho i mean... well they are usually what you would call a mans man... conservative, right wing, hunter..fisherman.. types... me tarzan you jane
sort of guys.. who turn out to be controling *******s.
duh what did i expect... so im smarter now..
if i see one of those types i run like roadrunner in the opposite direction.

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by boann


by macho i mean... well they are usually what you would call a mans man... conservative, right wing, hunter..fisherman.. types... me tarzan you jane
sort of guys.. who turn out to be controling *******s.
duh what did i expect... so im smarter now..
if i see one of those types i run like roadrunner in the opposite direction.

Maybe there are some of those that aren't controling. I don't know.

[Lancer]

"by macho i mean... well they are usually what you would call a mans man... conservative, right wing, hunter..fisherman.. types... me tarzan you jane "

Yeah, fishermen are the pits.