am I messed up?

[Gibsie]

That is the best case scenario, technically.

[Lancer]

"Maybe the problem was you.

Most Western men marry women from outside their culture because they can't deal with women who refuse to be treated like slaves."



I'll show this to Dolores. She could use a good laugh. The hardships of slavery can be so...depressing.

[Ecthy]

Death, what the fvck are you talking about? There are people with much worse problems here. Sure you can easily find som chick which lets you drool onto her boobs, weren't you on about something like that the other day?

[Provost Harrison]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara


Maybe the problem was you.

Most Western men marry women from outside their culture because they can't deal with women who refuse to be treated like slaves.

I honestly don't get this impression about their relationship, although I don't know the exact details of their domestics. However I am quite capable of looking after myself and my surroundings...sometimes I wonder if this is the problem - I am not needy enough

[Lancer]

I'm a monster.

[ajbera]

Re: am I messed up?

Originally posted by DeathByTheSword
1) it was my first real love and that is why i cant stop thinking about her.

I say this is the one. I still think about my first love (we're actually still acquainted, though we only communicate infrequently). First love is huge, like your first sexual experience (but more important - call me a hopeless romantic (or just hopeless)).

[Dis]

Originally posted by Lancer
I'm a monster.

yes you are, and don't forget it. That fact that your wife is happy means nothing.

[Sikander]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara
You never completely get over your first love. It's normal to be a little obessive after it ends, as long as it doesn't gradutate into stalking or worse. It gets easier to deal with over time, and you will eventually go through longer periods without thinking over her. This is a wound only time and experience can fix, so start seeing other people.

Yea, it took me about three years and almost a dozen lovers to get over my first love completely.

[Ecthy]

I've been stalking on some girl before