why

[boann]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara


Maybe it's what you're feeding him? You should try a different brand of man food.

man food... lol.. thats pretty funny


he was a truck driver... loved fast food.
never saw a lettuce that he would eat without
drowning it in thousand island dressing...
the only vegetables he would touch
were lettuce, corn and peas and potatoes
mountains of potatoes..
but he wasn't a fat man... in fact...
he was very active.. skied, hiked, mt biked.

[boann]

Originally posted by Alexander's Horse
you got a beautiful daughter, a dog, a PC.........

i know.. im blessed
this is my son and his girlfriend.

[Alexander's Horse]

nice girl, she has a kind face

[boann]

Originally posted by Alexander's Horse
nice girl, she has a kind face

shes just like that... wonderful person
i adore her

[Alexander's Horse]

I thought you might

Those 2 look like they're in lerv Mom!

[boann]

yep.. been together since juniors in high school
about 4 years i think.. that was a prom picture.

[boann]

Originally posted by Kidicious


Why did you guys break up? Maybe he is gay.

hummm i totally missed this one... sorry


when we met
he was in the middle of building his house
i was still emotionally a wreck...
my husband had died 6 months before
after we dated for about 3 months .. he began falling behind
in his work on his house and i was just sort of a mess.
so we broke up...
now we are just friends....
he's asked me out a couple of times in the last few months... i said no...
since we dated ive had a lot of therapy and
i realized that he was another one of the same
kind of guy that i had always fallen for...
so this time i opted out

[boann]

"why do i need a man"

heres the list so far....


lid opener
spider killer
bed warmer
handyman
bbq expert
someone to talk to
belong to
security
assurance and validation
money and tax rebates
financial security
having your back covered
someone to eat with
laugh with
ease loneliness
move heavy stuff

-Make you nice diners
-Take you out on a nice night
-Empty the groceries from the car
-Cut the grass
-Fix your car
-Fix things around the house
-Give you massages
-Comfort you when you are down
-Give you a different opinion or a different view on anything
-Hold you while watching a scary movie
-Spoon on the couch
-He's a partner for any vacation, activity or sport
-Make you scream like a banchy


do you think its as simple as just those things.
nothing more profound or insightful?

[Lancer]

boann, it's kinda hard to say...

[Sikander]

Originally posted by boann

its the men who were unlivable
liars, cheats, abusive alcohalics, obsessive compulsive,
narcissists

i used to have a na·ive belief that love would cure
and heal...
that only works for leaving the potatoes out..
not for psychotic disorders.

I'm sure they were all way cool before you started enabling them!

[Sikander]

Originally posted by boann

lol... psychotic disorders are not limited to gender..

and what is a histronic .. anyway?

He probably means histrionic (same root as hysteria, hystorectomy). Basically hysterical.

[Sikander]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
For me there in real reason to have i man. I choose th have one because i love having someone around to talk to and do things with. You of course can do that with a male close friend rather then bf too. Biggest reason for having partner is to ease the lonelness one might feel on any given occasion. I dont need tubes to move heavy stuff for me if i cant do it i dont move it
i dont need him to work on my truck i do that my self if he wants to help even better. The only good reason to have a partner is because you have made the decision to share your life with another person. As far as the toliet lid boann ur right on most od us dont turn lights on on a overnight visit to the bthroom im not sure we are even awake but rather know we have to go stumble there do the business and stumble back to bed with eyes not open. The hitting cold water uh kinda wakes ya up a bit. oh and feeling around toliet lid is just nasty i dont know a man that has perfect aim that can not get piss all around the lid hence the need for cleaning products

Next time get one that will puncutate and hold the shift key for you.

[Sikander]

Originally posted by JohnT


A man who thinks outside the box.

Or you could do as Pekka does and go pee on your neighbors lawn.

Pekka pees outside the box, like a cat I once had for a very short time.

[Sikander]

Originally posted by boann
hes a japanese chin
adorable and smart

.....with a few long scraggly hairs.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov
boann, of course you don't "need" a man, and if you're at a point where you're content living without anyone there, more power to you. I think the mentality that one "needs" to have someone in one's life like that isn't the healthiest way to approach relationships, anyway. It enables people to settle for partners who aren't very good matches just to satisfy a perceived "need."

Enjoy being on your own and take things as they come. Then, maybe you'll find someone who sparks in you a desire to "need" them, rather than your needs prompting you to find someone.

Quite

You don't need a man boann (not you Boris ), when the time comes you will encounter somebody whom you want to share your life with.