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  • Is there scriptual support against premarital sex? I dont think so.

    There are many references to ‘sexual immorality’ and “the sexually immoral” within the bible, most of them in the NT by Paul, but they seem to be referring to adultery, incest, and other perversions. Don’t really see any specific NT references to premarital sex as immoral. Don’t even see that implied. It was St Augustine who first floated that idea in his Confessions:

    In Book 2 of the Confessions Augustine describes his further descent into moral disorder during his adolescent years. By the time that a youth reaches adolescence, and becomes conscious of the demands of the moral law, his sins take on a far more troubling dimension than they previously had: whereas the child cannot be held personally accountable for his sins, the adolescent, by freely and consciously choosing to transgress God’s law, incurs a far greater penalty for his transgressions than he previously would have incurred.

    In 2.2 Augustine contrasts the ordered love ( caritas), in which the soul loves created thing in God, and disordered love (cupiditas or LUST), in which the soul craves created things for their own sake. Augustine's lust leaves him "storm-tossed" and "boil[ing] over in [his] fornication." During this period he describes himself as sinking further and further into his own depravity, because there was no one around who could put "measure on [his] disorder. [Remember: although he is nominally a Catholic he is not officially a member of any Church because he has yet to be baptized]

    He comes home from Madura for a short reprieve from his studies. We get the sense in chapter 2.3 that he believes that his parents failed to provide him with the kind of guidance he needed to avoid falling to sexual temptation. Instead of imparting a unified message about the dangers of sexual activity outside of marriage, they all but justified his illicit behavior. Although his mother Monica initially warned Augustine against premarital intercourse, she almost immediately qualified her warning by discouraging him instead against adultery—a message which he evidently took to heart. Still worse, his father seemed completely uninterested "in how chaste I was," and at times even encouraged his burgeoning sexuality.

    Although there is some speculation about the extent of Augustine's wanton activities during this period, most scholars maintain that Augustine did nothing worse than the average young adult in Roman society. Remember: he is writing the Confessions after his conversion and like all converts he is hyper-sensitive about his failings.
    That book was relevant in the 4th century. It was based on 4th century morality not on scripture. Read something interesting online about biblical references to fornication as well:

    I Cor 6:9 badly mistranslate "porneia" as fornication. Corinth was a wide-open port city. People there could get sex any way they wanted it. Where our English translations read 'fornication', Paul's original Greek word was 'porneia' which means to sell and refers to slaves bought and sold for cultic prostitution. What was happening in the Temples of Corinth was farmers were visiting the temple priestesses who represented the fertility Gods. By having sex with these prostitutes they believed their fields would be more fertile. It didn't even have to do with going to prostitutes, but pagan cultic worship.

    In Rome, the Latin prostitutes would hang out in small alley's and behind small L shaped walls. In Latin the shape is called FORNIX, hence the place association with acts of prostitution gave "fornicatio" Where Paul was condemning sex goddess, cultic, prostitution or trafficking in slaves for that purpose, the Latin fathers substituted 'fornicatio', which led readers to believe that Paul was condemning all forms of premarital sexual intercourse."

    Some modern English Bible versions translate "porneia" as "sexual immorality", a term which is supposed to clarify the somewhat obscure and dated "fornication", but is really a catch-all term that allows interpreters, both professional and lay, to apply this passage to any sexual behavior at all, far beyond the specific practices to which Paul refers.

    From "Halley's Bible Handbook" 1 Cor. 6: 9-20; "Venus was the principal Deity of Corinth. Her temple was one of the most magnificent buildings in the city. In it a thousand Priestesses, Public Prostitutes, were kept, at public expense, there always ready for Immoral Indulgence, as worship to their Goddess." The Christians continued to go to the temple for sexual indulgences with the priestesses of Venus. This was all Paul was talking about and he says nothing about loving sexual pleasure-sharing with non-goddesses'!

    It does violation to the Biblical text to assume I Cor.6:9 includes pre-marital sex, especially since that is not the context of the discussion, either of that chapter or of the surrounding chapters. The context of I Cor.6 is the problems with the Temple of Aphrodite. Sex with those prostitutes was idolatrous. The argument that Paul condemns singles' sex here or anywhere else in scripture is faulty interpretation. Such a position is illogical because your assumptions are based on emotional constructs rather than on history and on hard evidence.

    Nothing in the NT indicates any prohibition of singles' sexuality. It seems that if we apply Jesus' teaching of love over legalism, responsible Christian sexuality is much more an example of Christ's loving desire for us than the traditional biblical values of many wives, concubines as breeders, and capturing women in battle for soldiers' sexual pleasure!

    A Prodigy poster said: "..I think that David H's post cannot be so easily dismissed. I am not a theologian-although I did attend a seminary...and I have studied a fair amount of Greek.....While at the seminary, I wrote a paper on the translation of "porneia". As you must know if you have studied the question, "fornication" is a bald mistranslation of "porneia" (even my very conservative Greek professor conceded this point). If one discounts the N.T. passages containing this mistranslation--including the selection from Thessalonians...there is little remaining support for the position that the Bible condemns premarital sexuality....if one takes an objective view of what the Bible has to say on the subject, sexuality outside of marriage seems to be accepted....I would also acknowledge that most people would be happier...if they would simply accept the church's traditional position...But to condemn all sexuality outside of marriage as sin seems to go well beyond what the Bible teaches--and Paul has a good deal to say about that in Galatians."

    All of us should search our own spirits. God can lead people differently, resulting in reaching different people in sharing Christ's love. We also must respect others' beliefs but try not to cause another to stumble, since some cannot handle emotionally anything other than the traditional Church view.

    Again a Prodigy poster: "Scripture is only one way God speaks to us and has a number of limitations because it was not written with modern conditions in mind. While reading scripture is useful, it is only useful when done in prayer.. and in not relying on the Holy Spirit but relying instead on the Bible as a substitute for His wisdom. In the absence of unambiguous mandate from scripture, it is wrong for me to impose a personal moral code on others who believe differently".

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    There are various references in the Hebrew bible to "harlotry" but exactly what is meant is unclear, IIRC. Theres also a legal item that says that if a bride is not a virgin, she is entitled to a lesser bride price than normal. Not a big sanction. Although later interpretation said that since shes entitled to lower bride price, she has to tell her groom before the marriage, and it needs to be reflected in her (public) marriage contract, or else there are grounds for (mandatory, IIRC) annulment. Publicly announcing on your wedding day that youre a non-virgin was apparently a pretty effective deterrent in those days.

    But no flogging, stoning, or anything like that.
    "A person cannot approach the divine by reaching beyond the human. To become human, is what this individual person, has been created for.” Martin Buber

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    • #3
      Luckily my moral code doesn't depend upon what some itinerant sheep farmers thought, thousands of years ago.
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      • #4
        Originally posted by molly bloom
        Luckily my moral code doesn't depend upon what some itinerant sheep farmers thought, thousands of years ago.
        seeing as youre not Jewish (your namesake was though, wasnt she?) , theres no particular reason you should feel bound by a law that, on its own terms, was given to the Jews.
        "A person cannot approach the divine by reaching beyond the human. To become human, is what this individual person, has been created for.” Martin Buber

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        • #5
          I read in the Bibble that if you have pre-marital sex, then you are considered married to that person. I don't remember where it was though. Of course, if you then go an sleep with someone else, you're committing adultry, and can be executed.
          Christianity: The belief that a cosmic Jewish Zombie who was his own father can make you live forever if you symbolically eat his flesh and telepathically tell him you accept him as your master, so he can remove an evil force from your soul that is present in humanity because a rib-woman was convinced by a talking snake to eat from a magical tree...

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          • #6
            Originally posted by chegitz guevara
            I read in the Bibble that if you have pre-marital sex, then you are considered married to that person. I don't remember where it was though. Of course, if you then go an sleep with someone else, you're committing adultry, and can be executed.
            Religion is freakin stupid in some ways.

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            • #7
              The problem is that admonitions against "fornication" also appear in:

              Acts 15:20
              Galatians 5:19
              Ephesians 5:3
              Colossians 3:5
              1 Thessalonians 4:3

              I think it's harder to explain those passages away, esp. since they aren't addressing anyone in Corinth. I suppose one could argue that they all use "fornication" in the same manner, but I would be curious to see what the original Greek says.
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              • #8
                Originally posted by chegitz guevara
                I read in the Bibble that if you have pre-marital sex, then you are considered married to that person. I don't remember where it was though. Of course, if you then go an sleep with someone else, you're committing adultry, and can be executed.
                I dont recall the text, but in later Jewish law this is essentially what we call common law marriage. You can marry someone by exchanging gifts, OR you can marry by intercourse. BUT - you have to INTEND the intercourse as a form of marriage, or it dont count. This comes up in the case of granting annulments, a difficult problem in Jewish law, since a divorce must be granted by the husband, an impossibility if hes, say, absconded, or simply refuses to show up in a rabbinic court to grant the divorce. In such cases freeing the woman to remarry requires an annulment, and one wants to do that on actual legal grounds. One ground is that the marriage ceremony was faulty. A reform marriage ceremony, which probably wont have proper witnesses according to J law as interpreted by the Orthodox (or even Conservative) WOULD be faulty, and so annulment could be granted on that ground. (this is helpful in cases where the couple started Reform, the wife became Orthodox, and the Reform husband refuses on ideological grounds to go before an Orthodox rabbinic court) The counter is that the couple had intercourse and so are married anyway. The counter to THAT is that because the couple INTENDED their Reform ceremony to establish their marriage, they did NOT intend the intercourse to do so, and so it did not. QED.
                "A person cannot approach the divine by reaching beyond the human. To become human, is what this individual person, has been created for.” Martin Buber

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                • #9
                  in at least one early Jewish text, its said that a good father insures his daughter is married young, to avoid harlotry. Its simply taken for granted that if folks are unmarried for too long, pre-marital sex will result. A more realistic view of human nature than some others, one might say?
                  "A person cannot approach the divine by reaching beyond the human. To become human, is what this individual person, has been created for.” Martin Buber

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                  • #10
                    A more perverted view of human nature than some others, one might say?
                    I agree.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by lord of the mark
                      A more realistic view of human nature than some others, one might say?
                      Nawwwww.
                      Christianity: The belief that a cosmic Jewish Zombie who was his own father can make you live forever if you symbolically eat his flesh and telepathically tell him you accept him as your master, so he can remove an evil force from your soul that is present in humanity because a rib-woman was convinced by a talking snake to eat from a magical tree...

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                      • #12
                        It was Paul who wrote that man and woman are "one flesh," regardless of other circumstances. It gets a mention in the Screwtape Letters too, that's how I know about it.
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                        • #13
                          Is someone feeling guilty?
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                          • #14
                            i sure don't.
                            I wasn't born with enough middle fingers.
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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by DinoDoc
                              Is someone feeling guilty?
                              Yes, my girlfriend is. I'm trying to build this argument to put her at ease..

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