How do I get over him/her?

[The Emperor Fabulous]

This is a thread for everyone. Basically its for those of us who just can't get over someone.

Please help me. There's a girl I can't get over. We hooked up, and she convinced me that she wanted me. Then she found some hot guy and decided to go for him. Then he used her, and she came back to me, and sucker I am I went for it. Used me again, and now she just wants to be friends. I can't get over her. It's not like I can just hook up with other girls (though I did try that...it didn't work). So please, how do I get over her?

...god I whine a lot

[Jon Miller]

distance yourself from her

bury yourself in some other thing that youar ereally into (possible try to find a new girl, but not neccessarily)

and wait

and be more carefull next time

Jon Miller

[Asher]

I'll never understand why it's difficult to get over people.

Just try not to get emotionally attached in the future and I'd imagine it'd be easier.

[Jon Miller]

getting emotionally attaached is a good thing

getting hurt is a good thing

it is what makes you alive

better to get emotionally attached and not get hurt though

that makes you alive also

Jon Miller

[Ted Striker]

Damn I will just let Jon speak he is the only damn person that makes any sense in these threads.

[Asher]

Getting emotionally attached just puts yourself on an emotional rollercoaster.

It goes up, it goes down...

[Jon Miller]

and you exist

Jon Miller

[Ted Striker]

Emperor you need to make a clean break from this hoe and find an outlet.

Don't you feel embarrassed that you are playing yourself by beating yourself up and wasting energy by someone that used you? Why are you letting someone else dictate your life like that?

Now, you just can't turn the hurt off but you can decide what to do with it -- turn it into a positive energy for example.

[Jon Miller]

being a robot is no fun

Jon Miller

[KrazyHorse]

Have meaningless sex with as many good-looking members of the opposite sex as you can manage.

[KrazyHorse]

Then when you feel better have another relationship with somebody less likely to ditch you.

If it was you who ditched her, then you should already be over her.

[Ted Striker]

Well, I wouldn't recommend it but if you want to go that route, as always, make sure to wear the jimmy sack.

Double-bag it if you have to.

[Jon Miller]

don't double-bag

that is actually worse

Jon Miller
(from sex ed)

[Jon Miller]

unless you mean over her head and your head?

I don't think he should be that desperate

Jon Miller

[Ted Striker]

Well I've never actually heard of someone literally double-bagging it but it sounds funny.