Rape Humor

[General Ludd]

If that's blackice, he must've taken some english courses, and finally learned that using a dozen 'lol' smilies in each post doesn't make your argument any better.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by notyoueither
Actually, about 10% of the victims of rape are men. Mostly by other men, but that is not what Doc was discussing with some others.

So maybe those 10% don't matter.

So does 90% not make "most?" How did your post invalidate mine?

[Dr Strangelove]

Originally posted by SirTweek


Hmmm...stuck with the consequences like how I've become a walking wallet to a women that has been unemployed since the child was born or would that be like how I only can get 2 hour visits once a week to see my firstborn child. Or would those be the consequences she gets like eighteen years of welfare, child support, yearly tax breaks, and a 'baby bonus' cheque every month. Can't forget the power to manipulate me at every oppurtunity with my own daughter. Yeah she has it hard in life.

Personally I think they are more finicky because men let them get away with it, rather then walking away and telling them to get lost when they tease.

I don't know what its like in Canada, but welfare is a pretty meager living here in the USA.

Regarding the "walking wallet" thing last time I checked the majority of men still failed to come through completely when it came to child support payments.

Then there is the nine months of carrying around someone else's body (the baby's) and the nearly day long delivery. One of my favorite women's joke is the comedienne who quips "I couldn't imagine even doing something that I like to do for 12 hours straight."

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui
It is not utopia, it is THE LAW! Go right ahead and continue to attempt to initiate sex after the woman says no, but then don't be suprised if she charges you with sexual assault.

Well imran I think the point that many of us were trying to make is that the mere fact that the syllable " no" is uttered at some point does not necessarily make sex afterwards a "rape". Absent force, threat of force or severe inebriation, a subsequent verbal affirmative or positive actions would override the "no". A woman can change her mind.

As for playing with fire, anytime you sleep with a stranger there are so many dangers thay are almost uncountable. One is the false allegation of rape (even if the word "no " was never uttered). These situations are pretty rare but if you have no idea as to the mental state of your bed partner, watch out.


If a person is not mature enough or just don't feel comfortable about discussing sexual boundaries (don't want to break the mood) there are playful ways to do things. Assuming you are at a stage where you are comfortable giving her a massage , you could play the up/down/right left game. You tell her that she is the boss and as your hands move you teasingly seek direction. It can be a very fun and playful way for her to allow or not allow as much or as little contact as she wants. Since you obey her "directions", she feels more and more comfortable.

Bottom line . . . ascertain what your partners limits are and respect them.