connecting with girls on an intellectuel level

[Saint Marcus]

I have yet to meet a girl that I can connect with on an intellectuel level. That´s why I haven´t been able to have a relationship with a girl, as friends or lovers, for longer than a year. I just can´t seem find one who´s thinking on the same level as me. With (some) guys I don´t have that problem, just with girls. What´s up with that?

[Zylka]

(Feed her E)

You're welcome!

[Jon Miller]

you're gay

Jon Miller

[*End Is Forever*]

You're patronising and paternalistic?

[Zylka]

Those are big words, mister!

REMOVE MY GIRL AS YOUR AVATAR AT ONCE

[Urban Ranger]

Mark,

You don't always wear the same clothing all the time, do you? By the same token, you need to have friends to talk about big issues, and you need to have friends to connect on an emotional level.

[JohnT]

"I have yet to meet a girl that I can connect with on an intellectuel level. That´s why I haven´t been able to have a relationship with a girl, as friends or lovers, for longer than a year. I just can´t seem find one who´s thinking on the same level as me. With (some) guys I don´t have that problem, just with girls. What´s up with that?"

Women think differently then men do, that's all. They also think about different things than we, and they place a different emphasis of importance on things than we do. If you're trying to find a (natural) woman who acts like nothing more than a guy with a vagina, you'll be miserable.

My wife asked me once what I thought the difference was. After the usual disclaimers re: stereotypes, I told her "All in all, I think men will sacrifice their families to save the world, but women will sacrifice the world to save their families." She said that sounded about right.

[Paul Hanson]

I've met about one girl in my 19 years on this earth that I could connect with on my exact intellectual level.

Shame she won't talk to me any more.

Good thing I'm only 19, and have many more years to find another such girl.

[Bosh]

I have yet to meet a girl that I can connect with on an intellectuel level.

Make friends with lesbians, works for me...

[Gibsie]

I'd just give up.

[FrustratedPoet]

What do you mean by "fail to connect on an intellectual level"?

That they are less intelligent than you? That they don't have the same interests?

[Zero]

you're probably looking in the wrong places.

Im guessing you chase around airheaded hot looking types and whine about how they cant be any smart. 99% of my friends who whines about the same thing usually fall under what I described.

[JohnT]

I think he wants to debate with them endlessly, without having the girl take it personally... you know, like a guy. Of course that will never happen. All girls take all disagreements about all subjects very personally. A woman will even take indifference personally:

"This show is stupid. Can we watch something else?"
"Why are you always insulting what I like?!?"

"No, Capitalism is inherently flawed as explained in the following scholarly sources..., you see?"
sobbing "You just think I'm stupid!"

"How would you feel if I put the vase over here and put this frame over there, and we rearrange the kitchen like this?"
"Uh... ... Sure, whatever you want honey."
"You don't care about anything, do you!?! Why don't you ever pay attention?"

[Lancer]

This thread is sexist! I ought to fit right in. Just make myself at home...

[Zero]

No, John I think he mean ANY intellectual discussion. Maybe not, but I have friends who ask the same thing over and over again, and frankly they themselves are so superficial that they are looking for wrong things in a girl. And when they realize this they're not happy wit it.

Maybe u have the same problem? lets hope Im wrong.