Do women really like to be treated like crap?

[DrSpike]

Move.

[Dis]

I may have to move to a bigger city

or a city with more ugly chicks than my city has.

because I'm pretty sure I have had sex with every available ugly chick in my city.

[Provost Harrison]

You shouldn't be so harsh on yourself, that is the problem (and my problem as well). I find it hard to see myself in that context, and hence I tend to withdraw because I don't know where I stand or what I am capable of. It is like a massive insecurity thing that stops me from ever doing anything.

Anyway, on this nice guy thing, I am nice enough, but I do have quite a strong sense of pride, and if someone begins to take me for granted, they very quickly know about it.

[DrSpike]

Originally posted by Dissident

because I'm pretty sure I have had sex with every available ugly chick in my city.

That is sig. material........and I may be in the market.

[mactbone]

The whole - "let them show interest" is bull****. Yes, there are instances where girls fawn over guys - but those guys are Gods, and you either avoid them like the plague to make yourself look better, or stick close to them and pick up the ones they don't like. OK, that was a litle tongue in cheek. Seriously though, it's hard to figure what "interested in" means. There have been a few times where I really thought I might be able to go somewhere with it - only to have them namedrop their b/f. The one time I never heard that - she told me she was trying to get back with her ex. I'm assuming that was code for "you ugly manwhore, never ask me out again". ugly manwhore, ugly manwhore - has a nice ring to it don't you think?

[KrazyHorse]

Only when applied to somebody else.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by MacTBone
The whole - "let them show interest" is bull****. Yes, there are instances where girls fawn over guys - but those guys are Gods, and you either avoid them like the plague to make yourself look better, or stick close to them and pick up the ones they don't like. OK, that was a litle tongue in cheek. Seriously though, it's hard to figure what "interested in" means. There have been a few times where I really thought I might be able to go somewhere with it - only to have them namedrop their b/f. The one time I never heard that - she told me she was trying to get back with her ex. I'm assuming that was code for "you ugly manwhore, never ask me out again". ugly manwhore, ugly manwhore - has a nice ring to it don't you think?

You need to brush up more on the non-verbal communications department.

I have never considered myself a god, but there is never any lack of women showing an interest in me.

[Dis]

good example.

most women are still too reserved and shy to say they like you. but they will at least look at you or pretend to not be looking at you. Some of them do flirt as well.

In my case, when I see a woman who doesn't look away from my face in disgust, I strike up a conversation with her .

[Urban Ranger]

An interesting one is when you look at her, you find her looking at you. Upon finding you found out that she's looking at you, she looked away quickly. Repeat.

[KrazyHorse]

Isn't that what non-verbal flirting is all about?

[KrazyHorse]

I like when she looks away quickly, but then smiles to herself cuz she knows you're still looking at her...

[Urban Ranger]

Or when she finds out that you're looking at her, she flashes a quick smile at you. When she looks away the smile still lingers on her face.

That's a very good one.

[orange]

well this is an uplifting bit...

today in poly sci I'm feeling particularly gutsy so I strike up a conversation with the very attractive girl to my right. We whisper stuff to each other throughout class (it wasn't particularly interesting anyway) and I find out a lot about her. I introduce myself and give my name, she does the same...caught a few smiles...and as we're ready to leave she grabs the pad on which I was writing notes and puts her IM name...I do the same to hers...

Then we walk out of class together.

It gets better...

I come back for duty and a girl I've been getting more interested in comes to visit me. I'm in the office, not doing much, so it's not a big deal. We get talking about a wedding I'm in coming up (which we've talked about before) and she asks if I am bringing a date (obviously hinting) and I answer "actually, i was going to ask if you'd like to be my date" and she enthusiastically accepts...even though she claims to be repairing things with her ex-boyfriend...

hmmm...things could get interesting...Stay tuned

[KrazyHorse]

[notyoueither]

It sucks to be orange.