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  • #16
    Originally posted by Jon Miller
    if my current housemate walked in on me with a girl, I would have expect a similiar response (Oh my God!)
    But not in the terrified "what kind of freak are you?" sense...
    "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
    Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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    • #17
      Uber, I agree with the advice to use a sock to tell a roommate when the room is 'occupied,' but I also have this to add:
      Just don't get all weird around the gay roomie. Being homosexual in this world is a very difficult thing for the vast majority of us. Trying to find people that we'd be comfortable with knowing we're gay is often difficult. High school was very difficult for me because, although I didn't come out DURING high school, I still had to find sympathetic ears. And one of the harshest, most painful things is when a friend, my best friend of five years, starts to act all weird around you. Eventually, they push you away just because they couldn't deal. It took me a while to figure out why exactly I lost my best friend and I realized he thought I was attracted to him. Um...no. NOT my type, believe me. And the way he pushed me away...do you know what it's like to be invisible? This was made even worse by the fact that I'm 5'7" and he was just over 6,' so whenever I tried talking to him, he'd only talk with the minimum number of words to make a conversation, all the will looking over my head at whatever was going on, never once looking at me.

      Think of it this way Uber: you and your friend just met the guy. Don't do anything you wouldn't do around any guy you weren't really aquinted with, regardless of sexual orientation. Your roommate should make the extra effort to talk with this guy and find out what boundaries he shouldn't cross with him, and visa-versa. If you approach this with repect and compassion, this whole episode will be looked back upon with humor. If not, it could be a miserable experiance for all involved.
      The cake is NOT a lie. It's so delicious and moist.

      The Weighted Companion Cube is cheating on you, that slut.

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Asher

        But not in the terrified "what kind of freak are you?" sense...
        but here would still have been shock

        and a lot of it

        an dI at least cannot tell what causes shock

        so for all I know it could be the what a freak you are type

        but I would assume not

        Jon Miller
        Jon Miller-
        I AM.CANADIAN
        GENERATION 35: The first time you see this, copy it into your sig on any forum and add 1 to the generation. Social experiment.

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        • #19
          This still isn't all that bad a way to be outed.

          I was outted near the end of my senior year in high school by a drunken "friend" at a party to nearly all of my friends at once.

          The looks everyone gives you are just creepy and unnerving...
          "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
          Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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          • #20
            it's not so much me not accepting it (i'm FAIRLY ok with homosexuality, i just don't like to see it), it's also the fact that he didn't TELL anyone and we just FOUND OUT in a way he probably wouldn't have liked.

            whatever, my friend is going back to his room and me and that kid are supposed to have breakfast tomorrow before calc, so i guess we'll see what happens.
            "I've lived too long with pain. I won't know who I am without it. We have to leave this place, I am almost happy here."
            - Ender, from Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card

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            • #21
              Originally posted by UberKruX
              whatever, my friend is going back to his room and me and that kid are supposed to have breakfast tomorrow before calc, so i guess we'll see what happens.
              Make sure you wear and athletic cup, you know those gays...
              "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
              Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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              • #22
                Originally posted by Asher

                Make sure you wear and athletic cup, you know those gays...
                ack! don't do that!

                STOP GIVING ME GAY!

                "I've lived too long with pain. I won't know who I am without it. We have to leave this place, I am almost happy here."
                - Ender, from Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card

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                • #23
                  Originally posted by UberKruX
                  ack! don't do that!

                  STOP GIVING ME GAY!

                  That was weird...

                  Tuck a banana in your shorts and see if he notices.
                  Better yet, tuck one in the front and one in the back.
                  "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
                  Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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                  • #24
                    Originally posted by Asher

                    Make sure you wear and athletic cup, you know those gays...
                    ASHER!!! You know better than that...

                    ...We make our attacks from behind!
                    The cake is NOT a lie. It's so delicious and moist.

                    The Weighted Companion Cube is cheating on you, that slut.

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                    • #25
                      Asher doesn't

                      Jon Miller
                      Jon Miller-
                      I AM.CANADIAN
                      GENERATION 35: The first time you see this, copy it into your sig on any forum and add 1 to the generation. Social experiment.

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by UberKruX
                        it's not so much me not accepting it (i'm FAIRLY ok with homosexuality, i just don't like to see it), it's also the fact that he didn't TELL anyone and we just FOUND OUT in a way he probably wouldn't have liked.
                        I would like Stewie and all other heteros who do not understand the coming out process that gays and lesbians have, to read this quote from a certified hetero.
                        A lot of Republicans are not racist, but a lot of racists are Republican.

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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by DRoseDARs
                          ASHER!!! You know better than that...

                          ...We make our attacks from behind!
                          So what are you complaining about? Haven't you ever seen an athletic cup?
                          "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
                          Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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                          • #28
                            I haven't seen one

                            Jon Miller
                            Jon Miller-
                            I AM.CANADIAN
                            GENERATION 35: The first time you see this, copy it into your sig on any forum and add 1 to the generation. Social experiment.

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                            • #29
                              Originally posted by Jon Miller
                              I haven't seen one

                              Jon Miller
                              Poor thing. You've never played any contact sports? Even I've done that, Jon, that's just sad.

                              Go to the local sportshop and ask if you can try on their athletic cups.
                              "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
                              Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by Asher

                                So what are you complaining about? Haven't you ever seen an athletic cup?
                                Short answer: Yes.

                                Long answer: A Yes in the form of a joke...that would get me banned for MONTHS. Living dangerously as it is in this thread...really don't want to go that extra mile.
                                The cake is NOT a lie. It's so delicious and moist.

                                The Weighted Companion Cube is cheating on you, that slut.

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