have you ever cheated?

[Kepler]

Originally posted by Kamrat X
I think I´ve already made up my mind on this one. In fact I did it like 5 years ago... When I´m in a relationship there is noone else but my g/f and I. If she starts fooling around with other guys she´s out! And I expect the same from her if I pulled some crap like that.

And as long as your g/f and you have agreed about that, it's (IMNSHO) ideal. Congratulations -- it inexorably happens to all of us eventually.

[Frankychan]

Nope, haven't cheated on any girl. Although I've flirted w/a couple when I was with someone......also, had a couple close-calls where I've coulda cheated (as well as some where she coulda) but didn't.

But then again, I haven't had a long term relationship for, what?, 4 years now? Lust is too damn strong for me to commit to anyone.

[Boris Godunov]

No, but I did sleep with a guy who had a girlfriend at the time (who didn't know about his...other side).

[chequita guevara]

Originally posted by Kamrat X
Does it work for you? I´ve had a few, but they always seem to end in tears ( too possessive I guess )

It's been working for the last eight of our twelve years together.

Kepler, it's not so much about self-absorption as it is about being anti-possessive. As socialists, we refuse to own one another.

The fact that the relationship is open doesn't necessarily mean you fool around all the time. It just means that you can have other realtionships if one opens up to you.

[Alexander's Horse]

Originally posted by Ned
I have never cheated on my wife. But, when I was single, I had an affairs with a few married woman.

Creep

I'd cut your balls off.

[red_jon]

I wouldn't cheat on someone if I went out with them and I hope they wouldn't cheat on me either. I don't judge those who do very harshly though.

I was only the 'other guy' because it was my best friend and we were drunk - his relationship with his bf was deteriorating rapidly anyway and they'd both had other affairs.

[chequita guevara]

Oh, you know what, I have to second Ned. I had a few affairs with married women when I was single. My rationalization was, if I could do this, obviously they shouldn't be married. They were really cute, but the sex wasn't really worth it.

[Alexander's Horse]

Scumbag

I'm no angel but I made it a rule never to get involved with married women when I was single. It ain't right.

[Jon Miller]

I agree

Jon Miller

[KrazyHorse]

I don't know if I'd help a married woman cheat.

[Jon Miller]

I was agreeing with the "I am no angel" comment

Jon Miller

[KrazyHorse]

I know.

[Skanky Burns]

I don't know if I'd help a married woman cheat.

I probably wouldn't - not out of any ethical considerations, but because I wouldn't respect the woman. If she's in a bad situation, leave. If she isn't, then why is she having an affair?
I couldn't respect someone who is too weak to properly end a relationship thats not working out.

[KrazyHorse]

I've helped...2 girls cheat on boyfriends. THe only thing is, I'm not sure I'd go as far as ruining a marriage...

[Lorizael]

It sounds so odd, "helping" girls cheat.

"Come on, Amy, you can do it! You can have sex with someone other than your boyfriend!"

Or maybe that's just me...