Boris, Mr Fun, red_jon, (possibly Fez, no offence if not)

[KrazyHorse]

I think Fez is faking it in order to get us to lay off the gay jokes...

[Vlad Antlerkov]

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[Seneca]

Originally posted by Sagacious Dolphin


Quite, but I'm not a seasoned alcoholic, hence it affects me more.

You having a go at me?

lunges drunkenly at SD

[Asher]

I don't think clothing plays a big part in it.

I don't dress "gay" and I still get guys hitting on me.

But if somebody is wearing a sequin Abba shirt...yeah.

[KrazyHorse]

I mostly notice mannerisms...

[Asher]

Mannerisms is only good for the stereotypical gay men, who can be quite femme.

There's actually quite a big chunk of the gay population who don't flap their hands around while talking.

[KrazyHorse]

I know, and there are some that slip right past my gaydar, but even those who aren't really obvious still have managed to pick up an affectation or two (including speech-though not necessarily the stereotypical lisp).

[KrazyHorse]

My clue last night was that he kept chatting me up, and then suddenly declared that within 5 years I would discover my inner gayness...

[Wittlich]

Actually, If you don't want anyone's gaydar to go off on you...then STOP acting gay!

[Seneca]

I was just walking down the street for chrissakes...

Are there non-gay-walking classes you can go to?

[Bereta_Eder]

Originally posted by Seneca
and asked me if I'd like to come back to his flat to see his 'computer'. (I told him I worked in computers).

oh FFS!!!!

(im a bit wasted too)


that has to be the corniest pick up line


but ive heard that gays have problems finding mates so when they do its pretty straightforward their come on to you.

well no for me.

the only such incident was at the army where a gay (but gay like he was showing it and playing aliki sto nautiko err like i dont know drama queen) asked me to go out for a coffe with him which i politely refused.

no such incidents after or before that.

i think i was the only one actually "daring" to make fun (in a good humoured way) of his "drama queen acts" instead of pulling a straight face like everyone else did, thus the liking.

btw there was some incident with some track driver who was also serving his term in military and that guy, a **** and the situation turned a bit ugly laten on with the truck driver being allegedly abusive to him etc



so i asked (the gay guy) why dont you control yourself and not let these things happen?

and he told me: if you were the only man amongst 1000 or so beautiful women would you be able to completely control yourself?

thats when i understood the "gay peculiarity". which is simple. they are attracted to other men and thats that.

[Bereta_Eder]

btw gays are not allowed in the army. how that one got in, beats me. propably as not to get the "embarassing" card of dismissal.

[Caligastia]

Ive been to gay bars with gay friends, but Ive only been hit on by girls. My wife reckons its because I exude heterosexuality.

[faded glory]

gaydar is a real thing. So is the Jewbell. You can tell a a guy is gay by the way he walks. Its so freakin obvouis someone stuck a cucumber up there and broke it off. The way they talk. They talk differently. Just look at there hands ; they flail around like women. They just hired a guy at work and everyone thinks he's gay. He has all of the signs I mentioned lol. Nothing wrong with that. As long he doesnt rub my back and ask for my phone number.


Oh and no offense of course. I can also spot a jew any time. There mannerism's give them away. (*cough/ they usually have big noses and dry sandpaper-skin too*cough)

If thats stereotyping then Sue me. But ive never been wrong about spotting a jew or lesbian .

[Asher]

Originally posted by faded glory
gaydar is a real thing. So is the Jewbell. You can tell a a guy is gay by the way he walks. Its so freakin obvouis someone stuck a cucumber up there and broke it off. The way they talk. They talk differently. Just look at there hands ; they flail around like women. They just hired a guy at work and everyone thinks he's gay. He has all of the signs I mentioned lol. Nothing wrong with that. As long he doesnt rub my back and ask for my phone number.

That isn't gaydar, thats looking at the stereotypical gay man and connecting the dots.

That's only the most obvious type of gay man. They're called "flamers" to be more precise. And I don't believe they actually form the majority of gay men, they're just the most visible.