Bugs, help me

[Urban Ranger]

You're laying it on Bugs a bit thick here

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Stand by it. If you really do mean it, and you do feel that way then for christ's sake let her know. Things might get complicated, and there's no guarantee that she'll reciprocate, but if you don't stick with it then resign yourself to spend the rest of your life never knowing whether you're missing the best relationship of your life.

Don't laugh it off. The fact is that if she really is "just a friend", then she sees qualities in you that she likes, and there's every chance that these will survive a possible rejection by her. If she decides that she can't go on being your friend, then your friendship probably wasn't that strong.

Bugs he say "Go for it". Bugs married his best friend.

I never bought into that "Friends shouldn't date" rubbish. If you're a good friend with someone, you've got 95% of the necessary relationship ingredients in place.

[Dauphin]

I neglected to mention, in my drunken stupor, that she is actually with someone. If it was straight-forward enough I would have been ok. Kind of an important detail that.

Actually reading the e-mail again, it wasn't as bad as thought. Its a single line sandwiched between a bit about her driving test and me apologising for bad spelling due to being drunk. The title of the mail was "drinking and Driving test".

[Rogan Josh]

The fact that she is with someone shouldn't change anything. Feel free to be a homewrecker when love is involed .

My wife was engaged to someone else when we first met. That caused quite a bit of bad feeling, but it was worth it in the end....

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

I still haven't forgiven you.

[Provost Harrison]

That is quite a large omission there Christmas...

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Bugs ****ing Bunny
Stand by it. If you really do mean it, and you
I never bought into that "Friends shouldn't date" rubbish. If you're a good friend with someone, you've got 95% of the necessary relationship ingredients in place.

Precisely

[red_jon]

From what I've seen friendship-relationships tend to go very wrong.

I currently have very strong feelings for my best friend, I'm just hoping I never say anything.

Good luck BC, but if you want my opinion, just say you were feeling lonely and felt like you needed more from her, but you're not in love with her - it was just a drunken feeling. Otherwise things could get very awkard.

[Provost Harrison]

This is not who you are going on holiday with is it?

[red_jon]

Yeah - he's not the racist one though. He's straight but we kinda have a history.

[Alexander's Horse]

Accountants probably need alcohol to express personal feelings. She is probably a book keeper and he should tell her to get drunk before reading it.

[Provost Harrison]

Now this holiday sounds fun, potentially very 'eventful'

[red_jon]

My life is never dull. I've 'done stuff' with 4 of my closest friends, 3 of whom were straight, only one was when drunk (and that was the gay one!)

However sucky my life seems to get, at least I'm never bored. Suicide attempts, hard drugs use, pregnancies, marraiges, and all at the tender age of 17.

Jealous of my gay friend thought - shortly after breaking up with his boyfriend he's in bed with his boss - then two other guys afterwards (though not at the same time )

Exams coming up, aaaaah.

[Provost Harrison]

Well I can definitely say my life is 'mundane' in comparison...obviously I am in the wrong places at the wrong time

[Chowlett]

Originally posted by red_jon
Jealous of my gay friend thought - shortly after breaking up with his boyfriend he's in bed with his boss - then two other guys afterwards (though not at the same time )

Odd - even if I substitute females for the bed-companions, this doesn't appeal to me in the slightest. Well, not much anyway.