First love...

[Asher]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui
Nope, you really do change after your first love. You'll see Asher, you'll see Asher.

I've seen how real relationships work.

The two gets so enveloped with eachother that they tend to forget about the other people in their lives more, and become more emotionally detached except for eachother.

Maybe it's not like that for you since it's a long distance thing right now, when she's always there you'll see.

[finkian]

lol, when my first love dumped me, I went away and joined the army to run away from the pain of being around her. Now, I just got dumped not to long ago-- and I have no place to run... It's sobering, and a good lesson. So, me and my ex are forced to be friends. We mean too much to each other to stop hangin out, so it's a trial, but the important thing is the bonds that we forge, not the form the bond takes... or so I keep telling myself, lol

[MrFun]

Originally posted by orange
don't worry Mr. Fun, horse doesn't like to admit it, but his first love is and always has been his only love

isn't that correct, righty?

You spied on him on behalf of his wife, didn't you??

[Imran Siddiqui]

Maybe it's not like that for you since it's a long distance thing right now, when she's always there you'll see.

She was always there during last summer.

You only become detached from other people except the other if you let it happen. I know a person like that, but most relationships aren't... and I know that I'm not either. I like to hang out with my g/f along, but I also like going out with my g/f together in some group of friends.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui
She was always there during last summer.

You only become detached from other people except the other if you let it happen. I know a person like that, but most relationships aren't... and I know that I'm not either. I like to hang out with my g/f along, but I also like going out with my g/f together in some group of friends.

Ah, good for you.

My group of friends from high school has been destroyed because of relationships. Literally every single one of them but me are in relationships and they all vanished to their own little world in the process.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Well duh... you said it in your post.

HIGH SCHOOL!

See, there was your answer why that happened .

[Alexander's Horse]

Earthworms would have more romance in their lives than some of you people.

[Asher]

That's...ermm...intentional...yes...we save money this way

[devilmunchkin]

it's complicated

ahh..my first True love...
has never disappeared from my life. It tends to make..uh..new relations more difficult as neither of us can get to far from each other. i still love him. not sure if he retains the same sentiments...but he's always there..so i might assume....
but yes...our timing is horrible to ever reunite.

[FemmeAdonis]

MY first love *sighs*

lasted 4 years...we had our ups and downs..but we began as best friends.

It ended....not on a bad note at all. We just grew up and apart at the same time. He wanted different things than I did...ya know?? we just weren't MESHING the way we had been.

So we both had to move on. I'll always have love for him..Always always always...I think about him sometimes. Wonder what he's doing..or just remember nice times to make me smile.

But now..Im with my second love..someone I wouldn't want to give up for the world. been with him for over a year. Our personality's click..AND clash but through it all...I love him with all my heart and soul.

I can thank Blackwidow for introducing us.

BW

it IS better to have loved and lost than to never have loved before.

I wouldn't change any of it.

time heals all wounds.

[Simon Darkshade]

When one's bitter and dark musings stray as they frequently do onto the topic of one's first and only love, two words come to mind: unrequited and unrequitable. I have a very apt quote that does somewhat lend itself to a description of one's situation:

"It's so easy to explain. Easy and very hard. Just one word covers it all."
"What word? No word could explain it. Not a whole Bible of words."
"It's a common enough word, but it might mean something different to you than it does to me. Language is a bastard. So let's invent a new word. "Libb" will do. I libbed you. That's all there is to it. I was in libb with you. My libb for you informed my every waking and sleeping hour for...for God knows how many years. Nothing has ever been as powerful as that libb. It was the guiding force of my life, it haunted me then and haunts me still."

And as to the oft repeated and hackneyed claim "It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all", I would say that it is not universally applicable. I for one certainly disagree.

[ZoboZeWarrior]

I never declare my love to my 'first love'. I was 13. Because, I was too impressed and she moved before I could have tell her.

I've encountered her by chance, some years (7 or 8) later and 1000km away from our village, in the arms of a friend, we were strudent at the same high school! Amazing. Of course, at this time I didn't no more feel love for her. Just a little nostalgia.
I didn't tell her my old feeling for her. Ghost are just ghost.

[Solly]

Bobby

My first love was unrequited.

[Provost Harrison]

Your first love was Bobby?

I don't do 'love', I'm a heartless, callous bastard

[Tiamat]

A suggestion to help you through this.........lots of chocolate!!