Women/Girls: The Vicious Half

[devilmunchkin]

detroit: what's odder is when they backstab you, thinking you're a threat...but you're only a threat in THEY're minds. Men don't do this (unless it's to rat out cops i guess). I know several females on my stepdad's side of the family that always have to have some saga going. Do you think modern day soap opears that women grow up watching have anything to do with this?

[General Ludd]

Originally posted by devilmunchkin
detroit: what's odder is when they backstab you, thinking you're a threat...but you're only a threat in THEY're minds. Men don't do this (unless it's to rat out cops i guess). I know several females on my stepdad's side of the family that always have to have some saga going. Do you think modern day soap opears that women grow up watching have anything to do with this?

I think women are just more into the "social game" then men are.

In my experience, women tend to worry alot more about how others view or think of them, who people's friends and enemies are, and how they all fit into the social ladder.

[KrazyHorse]

Perhaps. Men are eminently more practical than women; if we can't eat it, drink it or **** it, it ain't worth **** to us.

[devilmunchkin]

yes but can you hold lie long grudges and spend whole lifetimes trying to make another miserable ...
women do that alot

[Zkribbler]

Originally posted by devilmunchkin
the mind games and what not don't exist with males.
>mind gmsndwht nt don't exist with males<
>>mindgmswnt don't exist with males<<
>>>minds don't exist with males<<<

uh oh. i think she's figured out our secret

[MikeH]

We haven't got mental energy to spare scheming against other men, it's all directed into trying to get girls to have sex with us.

[Blackwidow24]

DM..women are way more vicious than men..they also take what others say to them to heart..at least some do. This is the way of the world dear..there will always be mean nasty people...The backstabbing thing I wouldn't know about..I have never back stabbed a friend. that is my problem I am way to honest to my friends..I will say what I have to say to their faces before I go and blab it to anybody else...and if I do say anything to anyone else about a friend They will hear it from me first. I have been backstabbed way to many times by friends to TRUST anybody (even my closest friend) WITH SECRET MATTERS IN MY LIFE!!!!

So yes DM..some women are "GLEN CLOSE"Material..me in matters of anger.. I am more like a man.. I BLOW UP..I say what I have to say...and I forgive and move on...and like a man if you egg me on and push me hard enough I will NOT BACK DOWN, but go POSTALon your ARSE!!!!!
In my mind Dm I am 50 feet tall...some people say it's the Mexican in me..


*well you know* ohhhhh...I did hold a 2 year grudge once...but I am to soft in the heart for people who need me!

[loinburger]

On a related note, I've found that men generally make better friends than women. Every female friend I've ever had has always tried to play stupid drama games, and the several of them have also turned out to be liars. I've never had a male friend who tried to play stupid drama games, nor have I had a male friend who was a liar. Whenever I've stopped being friends with a male it's because our interests have diverged, and we're always still on friendly terms. Whenever I've stopped being friends with a female it's because they've been untrustworthy, and only rarely are we still on cordial terms afterwards.

The biggest reason for this discrepancy is probably because I'm a good judge of character in men and a poor judge of character in women. Regardless, the discrepancy is there.

[Blackwidow24]

Same here, I find the best malefriends..but the worst female friends.

Yeah and I always lose my male friends because they want more than friendship from me....Do men always have an alterior motive when becoming friends with a female? ANyways..don't mean to stray from the topic...that was a question that haunts my mind quite often...

[loinburger]

Originally posted by Blackwidow24
Do men always have an alterior motive when becoming friends with a female?

Not always, but most probably wouldn't complain if the subject came up...

[Blackwidow24]

Ahhhh thanks.... I knew it!

[MikeH]

All my best friends are female and I've quite openly told all of them that I'd like to fvck them and they've quite openly told me no chance. It's a healthy arrangement. Girls are a lot easier to talk to about emotional stuff and I need to talk about that a lot. Once you establish the sex boundaries it's fine. It makes life easier the next morning after those times when you get drunk and end up sh@gging them anyway as well.

[Jaguar]

Originally posted by MikeH
All my best friends are female and I've quite openly told all of them that I'd like to fvck them and they've quite openly told me no chance. It's a healthy arrangement. Girls are a lot easier to talk to about emotional stuff and I need to talk about that a lot. Once you establish the sex boundaries it's fine. It makes life easier the next morning after those times when you get drunk and end up sh@gging them anyway as well.

I know exactly what you mean.



I have a great female friend, a good one, and one I'm not quite sure about. I also have 3 main guy friends. I like a balance.



I am lucky to be in a school, (actually, really only my grade) where that sort of thing doesn't happen. The smart kids aren't shunned, and there are a few jerkish guys, but everyone hates them.


BW, the ulterior motive is often there, but not the main reason.

[Gibsie]

If I so much as speak to another girl, my girlfriend will whack me with her umbrella. Thankfully, I do not speak to other girls much

[Goingonit]

I know what you mean - my sister (in grade 7, 13 y.o.), not in my opinion a particularly vicious persion, stopped talking to her best friend at all, and denouncing her in front of her (more popular) friends and her family (i.e. me). And I can certainly see this happen in my school (though I like to think that the girls in my school are at least somewhat less mean).

And with men/women as friends, the movie "when Harry met Sally" pretty much covers it.