What turns you off?

[orange]

Originally posted by Tiamat
See now I find that intersting....I always thought guys liked girls to wear makeup.

I for one hate it with a passion

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Kamrat X
Stupid women is a major turnoff for me, same with women who think they´re funny but really just are goddamn annoying

Stupid men is a major turnoff for me, same with men who think they're funny but really just are goddamn annoying.

Like . . . . . well, never mind.

[Tiamat]

Kamrat X, Guynemer and COckney

[loinburger]

I for one lie quite often, but never maliciously ("I thought she was 18!" or "Honest, honey, I never cheated on you!"), only teasingly ("The word 'gullible' is not in the dictionary" or "My brother wants to get engaged to his girlfriend, but first he has to find the engagement ring buried in the backyard. It's a long family tradition that the eldest female in the family, in this case my mother, hides the engagement ring by burying it somewhere in the backyard, and the male who wishes to be betrothed has to dig around until he finds it. My brother has been searching for nearly a week now...").

Does lying of the teasing variety count as a turn-off in the same way as lying of the malicious variety?

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by Logical Realist
Pseudointellectuals, who never admit when they are wrong, tend to get annoying real quick.

Hmmm....looks like someone's been looking in the mirror again.

New Agers tend to bother me too, as they think they can discover the "secrets" of the universe via an acid trip or crystal ball.

And you would be an authority on this because......what you've experienced this and tried it for yourself? What makes you think that people try to find the secrets of the universe on an acid trip? Are you stuck in the 70's or what? Last time I checked most people who try to find their inner peace or the "universe" as you put it usually do that on some type of spiritual quest or inner quest, finding peace within themselves not by the use of Drugs!

But I guess since you don't believe in any of that then you wouldn't understand it. Again unless you have tried to find your inner self or inner peace or done any work with crystals not a crystal ball ( you sooooooo know what your talking about) then I guess you wouldn't have a clue about it.

Overall, I tend to be more interested in a girl's mind and ideas than her bodily apearance or unique personality.

Well I'll be!! That's the first intelligent thing I think I've heard from you in a while! But, then again, do you really expect us to believe that a girls looks aren't important to you? Granted I've always been the one harping here that beauty fades and when you are sitting on the porch in your rocking chair........you better like the mind of the person your with because that's all you're really going to have......so looks don't matter to you???

[MrFun]

What turns me off -- shallow people who call all fat people ugly or who refuse to see other attractive qualities that some overweight people can have.

Not that I'm overweight -- I'm cute and handsome. I posted my picture on one of the threads in here.

[Al B. Sure!]

Tiamat:

I'm sorry. But thanks for telling me this. I won't mention nothing to anyone I know either. thanks. and sorry again


thanks

[Tiamat]

point was made earlier that not all fat people are fat because they want to be.

Many have medical conditions that make them that way. Besides it takes just as much energy if not more to be negative to a person......what goes around comes around so why not just be poliet and if you can't then fall back on that age old addage....a bit cliche' but.....If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Why hurt someone's feelings just because they are different or on purpose? Being mean is a huge turn off!


** tia steps down off soapbox**

[devilmunchkin]

Hmmm....looks like someone's been looking in the mirror again.

thank god it wasn't you?

WEll, LR turns me on. Alot. His online persona is very different from RL...some of us learn to look beneath that. But that's why he turns ME on and (thank the godless sky) not you.

Are you stuck in the 70's or what?

he wasn't even BORN until '82.

But I guess since you don't believe in any of that then you wouldn't understand it.

Understanding enough to know it's not true. I bet you don't understand alchemy all the way ..just enough to know it's not true.

crystals not a crystal ball ( you sooooooo know what your talking about) then I guess you wouldn't have a clue about it.

metaphor

That's the first intelligent thing I think I've heard from you in a while!

i hear many..but of course...i listen. He can run circles around you anyway..how much do you actually REMEMBER from college. please..don't answer that. i don't actually WANT to talk to you.
just defending the "man i love."
*steps off soapbox*

[David Floyd]

Uh-oh

[devilmunchkin]

no, dave..no ugh oh. not starting anything. ......just stating facts. as a grown woman, she'll be able to see this.

If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.

just pointing this out.

btw: earlier, when i showed her his picture..she thought he was quite the gothic cutie then. perhaps it's something else that has caused this prejudgement.

[David Floyd]

[Al B. Sure!]

Tiamat:

Your private messager is full so i'll tell you it here.

Another pet turn off is people who always have to tell you their life story and how pitiful it was and how nobody loved them, their life is so horrible, their mother never loved them......yadaaa yadaaa yadaaa. If you notice they always manage to turn the conversation now matter what it is around to them and how terrible things are for them. It gets old after a while.

i dont know if you was talking about me but it sure sounded like it.

thanks

[DinoDoc]

Thinking out loud ...

Originally posted by devilmunchkin
perhaps it's something else that has caused this prejudgement.

Maybe she's Christian.

[devilmunchkin]

dino: no. she's pagan.....
which might be why (one of the reasons) her undies got tied up in a knot over LR"S post.