heterosexual sex amounts to sexual abuse to a woman?

[Dis]

I tried to find the source to get the line exactly right. but it's close enough for goverment work. You get my jist.

And I just pointed out above this did come from a source. It is not a troll thread. Do not shut it down.

I'd like to hear some responses from concerned males and females (or DL's pretending to be females )

Of course I don't agree with such an absurd statement. But I feel that because it was made, and can be influencing, it deserves discussion.

Discuss

[Dis]

I may need more to get this thread rolling. The statement above may not be enough. I'm not certain, but I believe the above statement was made by a lesbian feminist.

What bothers me is sometimes people force their views onto others. Feminists should be encouraging women to think for themselves, not telling them what to think.

But I don't want to isolate this entirely on feminists. I see this all throughout special interests groups. No one thinks for themselves. They rely on other people to tell them what to think.

While this should be no surprise to many here. The numbers involved are staggerring. I see it more and more now days. Are people unable to form opinions for themselves? I'm tired, so I'm probably rambling. So long.

[Drekkus]

amounts to? What do you mean with that? In the end women are abused? Please explain some more.

[Dis]

I really can't. I didn't make the statement.

It was said by some feminist I suppose.

What do you all take from that statement is what I am asking.

[Dis]

What I'm guessing- I really don't want to put thoughts in this person's head. But who cares . I'm guessing that this lesbian can't seem to comprehend that even though women share a common gender, not all women think like her. Just because she can't comprehend why a woman would be attracted to men or undergo penetration sex doesn't mean she should be saying women are abused by such practices.

I've been with some women (too few unfortunately) that have really enjoyed sex. They get really into it. And I've been with some women that do seem to put out because that is what is expected of them. You can tell this because of their lack of enthusiasm. Is this abuse? Was I abusing these women by having sex with them even though they don't really enjoy sex? I never forced them to put out. Some women just fake it just to keep their boyfriends happy etc. I don't stay in such relationships mainly because I don't enjoy that kind of situation.

[Hydey]

If we do not have hetrosexual sex can someone please explain to me how we were intended to breed.

My wife would be most upset if I told her I could not longer pleasure her as it may be seen as sexual abuse.

[Dis]

there are ways of freezing you know what and placing it you know where.

I say in the future, sex may be like in that movie Demolition man. what da ya all think? Virtual Reality technology may even be able to make it better than the real thing.

[Drekkus]

Women use sex to get love
Men use love to get sex

So I guess it's mutually abusive.

[Case]

I seem to remember from an ideas in politics course that that statement was made by one of those American radical anti-porn femminists called something like Dorkins...
I *think* that she believes that men have all the power in hetrosexual sex, and as a result women should stear clear of blokes.

I'd get my old notes and check, but they're under the house, and I can't be stuffed getting them.

[Hydey]

Originally posted by Drekkus
Women use sex to get love
Men use love to get sex

I asked my wife and she dissagrees with you, she said women use love to get love but sex is something mutually enjoyable.

[Drekkus]

Originally posted by Hydey
I asked my wife and she dissagrees with you, she said women use love to get love but sex is something mutually enjoyable.

She's right



edit: on request. No offense was intended, just kidding.

[Zoid]

Case: I believe you´re correct, I wrote something similar in my post that got lost somewhere...

[Hydey]

Edit: Thankyou Drekkus

[Solly]

Originally posted by Hydey


I asked my wife and she dissagrees with you, she said women use love to get love but sex is something mutually enjoyable.

Mutually enjoyable? That avatar can't be a picture of you then.

[Hydey]

I think I hear boddintons pot calling my kettle black.