Are you a whore?

[notyoueither]

Originally posted by Jon Miller


once more, arround 8 per life is averaege

Jon Miller

maybe for a dog.

[St Leo]

Originally posted by JohnT
I'm one of the 11 people (so far) who has voted "1".

Loser.

... but the only one to admit it.

That's no excuse.

[Jon Miller]

Originally posted by notyoueither


maybe for a dog.

scientific

and it might be median

Jon miller

[LulThyme]

Originally posted by Dissident


easy. I small number of women sleep with a large majority of men. It has been this way for many, many years.

That still doesnt work out...
Suppose we have 2 women who slept with 10 men (the same 10) and 8 women who slept with one man each, and 8 women virgin (to make 20 on each side)
you'll get an average of 2.8 partners for both sexes...
FACT : if we assume that we are considering an equal amount of men and women, and that all sex acts are between a man and a woman (ill get to the objections later) then the average amount of partner for men and women will be the same.

OBJECTION 1 : the number of men in population is slightly different but in any poll or statistics, this shouldnt make more than 2% difference.

OBJECTION 2 : one act with multiple partners won't matter as long as both partners will count it also so.

OBJECTION 3 : this one is a bit bigger, it involves the fact that in fact not all sex acts are between different sexes... While this is true, I dont think there is enough of a difference between male gay sexual activity and femal gay sexual activity to make such a big difference on the average of the whole population

3 for women and 6 for men

If indeed poll bring up suchs numbers, the only answer I can see, and the one I find most probable is under-reporting for women and over-reporting for men...

funny it seems to fit a certain theme in American Pie 2 about the rule of three, where men multiply by three and women divide...

[notyoueither]

Average or median among which population?

[LulThyme]

Yeah of course I was thinking of arithmetic average among whole populaton...
if its a median or a small segment of pop it would be different...

[NeOmega]

Originally posted by Jon Miller
I am 23 (close to 24)

I would really like to have sex, so far I haven't

I would really like to find love, so far I haven't

as far as holding off sex until marriage, ~4 of my freinds did it (2 not religious) (that is 4 different couples) and I may do it depending on the girl I fall in love with (I would want to have sex with her, but would not need to, and I am sure we would talk about it too)

Jon Miller

Have you ever considered the priesthood?
My uncle did... until he was about 32. Real messed up in the head.

You love your mom? Your brother? Why don't you have sex with them?

BECAUSE... you will not find "true love" without sex. It just doesn't work that way. If you just wanted love, your family would be enough.

You dont want love, you want sex. Get honest about it, get real about it, and you'll get it. Keep searching for "love first" and you'll have a hard time.

A lot of people do wait until marriage..... and they get married at 19 or 20.

I am not interested in sex without love, and I don't mean love = you are pretty and I want to get in your pants

I detect some real confusion.

1) You bettter think she is pretty, and you better want to get into her pants.

2) If you are looking for that deep love that you see other people have... not gonna happen because it only comes with time. And if you take too long to make it happen, (If she won't), she will find someone else that will make her want to. It doesn't mean you have to apply pressure, but it means one of you better not be shy.

3) the love will come with time only. The first time around, you may think you are in love, but they call it "puppy love". Many times the first person is just simply not the person for you. At 24, you deserve some action. You held out long enough man!

[Al B. Sure!]

ignore everything NeOmega says, Jon. you are doing the right thing.

[NeOmega]

Originally posted by Albert Speer
ignore everything NeOmega says, Jon. you are doing the right thing.

ignore everything I say Jon. You are better off with porn.

(But it is so much more fun to watch with a girl. )

[Ted Striker]

Originally posted by NeOmega


Have you ever considered the priesthood?
My uncle did... until he was about 32. Real messed up in the head.

You love your mom? Your brother? Why don't you have sex with them?

BECAUSE... you will not find "true love" without sex. It just doesn't work that way. If you just wanted love, your family would be enough.

You dont want love, you want sex. Get honest about it, get real about it, and you'll get it. Keep searching for "love first" and you'll have a hard time.

A lot of people do wait until marriage..... and they get married at 19 or 20.



I detect some real confusion.

1) You bettter think she is pretty, and you better want to get into her pants.

2) If you are looking for that deep love that you see other people have... not gonna happen because it only comes with time. And if you take too long to make it happen, (If she won't), she will find someone else that will make her want to. It doesn't mean you have to apply pressure, but it means one of you better not be shy.

3) the love will come with time only. The first time around, you may think you are in love, but they call it "puppy love". Many times the first person is just simply not the person for you. At 24, you deserve some action. You held out long enough man!

I'd say you are applying your own experiences and opinions as a generalized blueprint for the rest of the world.

Sorry, the world doesn't work that way

Only Ted Striker can claim to be correct 100% of the time.

[Gibsie]

Originally posted by JohnT
I'm one of the 11 people (so far) who has voted "1".

... but the only one to admit it.

Actually, I'm sorry to inform you that you share this category with me

Also, I entirely agree with Speer that sex is better after years of waiting- I don't think I'd have enjoyed it when I was an infant, to be honest.

Oh well, that'll be my last post for a while- I'll be too busy making the Speers of the world cwy (When really my success should give them hope!).

[NeOmega]

Originally posted by Ted Striker


I'd say you are applying your own experiences and opinions as a generalized blueprint for the rest of the world.

Sorry, the world doesn't work that way

Only Ted Striker can claim to be correct 100% of the time.

24 year old virgins are rare. I used to be one.
I also used to be a real "player hater".

I am not telling them they are wrong, I am telling them it is not as bad as they think, and having sex is not going to make their world crumble around them if it is not the perfect situation. Quite the opposite indeed.

A good push is needed sometimes.



So keep dancing British Disco Dynamo... oh yeah baby, yeah.

[Velociryx]

/me can honestly say that he has never, before today, heard sex described as a "horrible plight."

Methinks a misconception exists....

-=Vel=-

[Jon Miller]

Originally posted by NeOmega


Have you ever considered the priesthood?
My uncle did... until he was about 32. Real messed up in the head.

You love your mom? Your brother? Why don't you have sex with them?

BECAUSE... you will not find "true love" without sex. It just doesn't work that way. If you just wanted love, your family would be enough.

You dont want love, you want sex. Get honest about it, get real about it, and you'll get it. Keep searching for "love first" and you'll have a hard time.

A lot of people do wait until marriage..... and they get married at 19 or 20.



I detect some real confusion.

1) You bettter think she is pretty, and you better want to get into her pants.

2) If you are looking for that deep love that you see other people have... not gonna happen because it only comes with time. And if you take too long to make it happen, (If she won't), she will find someone else that will make her want to. It doesn't mean you have to apply pressure, but it means one of you better not be shy.

3) the love will come with time only. The first time around, you may think you are in love, but they call it "puppy love". Many times the first person is just simply not the person for you. At 24, you deserve some action. You held out long enough man!

no, I have never considered the preisthood (or being celibate)

love for family 'should be' completely different than love for a spouse

and of course I will think that she is pretty, and want to get into her pants, I am not some confused kid

relationships are not all about sex, and from what I have seen those that are only about sex doen't last

and I think I know what 'puppy' love is, I have had numerous crushes (And I also know that crushes can develope, unfortunately for one reason or another none of mine did)

I think that you are the confused one

Jon Miller
(my freinds who waited until marriage generally did do sexual activity beforehand and had all graduated college before getting married)

[Jon Miller]

I actually think your responses are stupid (when I reread what you were responding to)

what is the whole priesthood response about, I said I wanted sex

and your response that for love to occur, you have to be having sex with a girl is all ****ed up

I don't beleive in pressuring people, and I do beleive in respecting whoever I am with

Jon Miller
(NYE that is straight US pop, US isn't conservate here by any means (same stats put the average or mean number of same sex partners, for a straight in the US, at 1-2 (which I guess adds one more to the total (homosexuals in the US had a higher average number of partners))))