I've dated Chinese and Black and mixed race girls, though the vast majority have been Caucasians. I tend to appreciate a nice or nice looking woman regardless of her race.
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Originally posted by Theben
Describes yellow fever from the perspective of one asian-american...
http://www.zukazuka.com/cv/YFelectronic.html(\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
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daft layout, but says pretty much everything i'm wary of in non-asians who seem to date nothing but asians, and from the dated's perspective, not that of an outsider (like mine).
she has a hilarious picture on the splash page of her site, though. very maoist.Last edited by Q Classic; October 1, 2003, 08:14.B♭3
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I love asians, great folks, mostly.
mostly? it's the parents in law, isn't it?
Q, much rarer breed. Many white guys have run into terrific life shattering situations with women from the US. Every time I help some poor guy meet a Filipina I have to listen to some terrible story.
i don't know if you could limit it just to us women, though. i know quite a few korean men who would do anything to get away from their korean wives... the grass always looks greener on the other side, so to speak.
I don't see white women doing the same thing. So, your case is rare I believe. More power to you guy.
thanks, and i'm not sure why relationships of this type are rarer. part of it, i think, is that we asian men aren't really ever considered. i've yet to see an asian man playing the lead in any semi-romantic storyline, for one.
another, we don't often fit the stereotype of what's attractive. you have the tall, dark and handsome: 'cept we're not particularly tall; you have the he-man, 'cept we're usually of slighter build. so it boils down to that, i guess, we're not what western society considers attractive.
and now that i think about it, asian male-non-asian female relationships... one hears about them, but i only know of two, mine and some random people i passed by on the street once.
this ir dating business is funny. one sees more black male-white female relationships than white male-black female, too.B♭3
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Well, I'm stuck in China. Most of the furiner women I meet are as grumpy as me. Who wants that?“As a lifelong member of the Columbia Business School community, I adhere to the principles of truth, integrity, and respect. I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”
"Capitalism ho!"
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But then on the other hand, when I moved here I found asian girls on average less physically attractive than white girls but since then its swapped and is slowly moving in the other direction for no good reason I can discern, which is starting to creep me out a bit, I don't want to turn into one of the "Yellow Fever" guys you get around here...
I feel your pain, brother. May god strike me down if I ever catch the fever.
i've yet to see an asian man playing the lead in any semi-romantic storyline, for one.
That's because Hollywood likes male leads who will actually hit on the female leads.KH FOR OWNER!
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Well, I'm stuck in China.
thanks, and i'm not sure why relationships of this type are rarer.Stop Quoting Ben
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That's because Hollywood likes male leads who will actually hit on the female leads.
what, the guy that ali wrote about doesn't cut it?
dreamworks has bought the remake rights to "my sassy girl"--and i'm hoping that they remake it with asians, because a bunch of the humor does sprout from korean/asian sensibilities.
that might change their minds.B♭3
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Well there seems to be a good number of asian men with a white girl fetish (have heard stories of hagwon bosses who only hire women and then sexually harass them) but for a lot of reasons (including there being a good chunk of guys with an asian girl fetish) male whities outnumber female whities by a good margin and a lot of the white girls are here with their boyfriends. Well I guess there's always the russian strippers (who wouldn't be here in such numbers if it wasn't for a pretty widespread bit of white girl fetish)...
i suppose things are a bit different over there. here, all the asian guys tend to stick to the party, er, family line, and tend to only date other asians, unless they're rebellious/fully americanized.
i'm the latter.B♭3
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