how do you know when youre in love

[Pekka]

Yeah, we can do the ultimate love test.

Me, or someone else beat you senseless. We are asking for her homenumber. We torture you with the most horrible methods known to man. Hot sand torture, hanging from your hands, Sudanese nipple torture, sticks under your nails, Chinese water drops, brake all your fingers and make you blind. This goes on for 48h and you will not be the same after you are done, you will have horrible injuries including psychological traumas that you won't be able to recover from. Will you last?
Do you give the info?

[Solver]

Well, I dunno, that's how I view it. If you know her for a week or two, then you can not know many bad things about her. If you've been with a girl for a few months, you get to know her habits, and stuff.

In my first high school year, I was feeling warm towards a certain girl, but when I got to know her better, I learn more of her habits. And found out I don't like those, AT ALL.

[Pekka]

Oh and the most important, if you survive our expression sessions, that's right we have torture artists, the girl doesn't want you anymore. You know this before torture begins. Do you still hold? If answer is you won't hold, you don't love her, if you manage through all, you love her but you lied to us you couldn't take it, thus you don't love her. Very simple.

[Imran Siddiqui]

If you have to ask, then you're probably not.

FP, I think that is for women .

For men, if you are starting to ask if you're in love, then you probably are.

[Solver]

Oh and the most important, if you survive our expression sessions, that's right we have torture artists, the girl doesn't want you anymore. You know this before torture begins. Do you still hold? If answer is you won't hold, you don't love her, if you manage through all, you love her but you lied to us you couldn't take it, thus you don't love her. Very simple.

Torture can be also a sign of loving a girl, indeed, although how bad a torture are we speaking about ?

[Pekka]

The WORST kind. I can't even put it to words.

[Solver]

If you're talking about the worst kind, I doubt many people would get through it even if they love. You, having never undergone that, don't know what it is, actually.

Only those who could somehow concentrate their feelings of love to drive the pain away...

[Pekka]

Solver, yeah, and I said true love doesn't exist! Only crushes. Some crushes are just stronger that others.

[Solver]

Frigging pessimist. Love does exist, and easily so.

And people who are in love can, really, for that undergo through considerable pain. Just not what you're talking about.

[Pekka]

Prove love exists. I'm not pessimist. Only realistic .
I don't say that it doesn't exist with 100% certainty. When I experience it, I'll change my mind.

[Solver]

Then go experience it . To prove love exists... go take a certain person and put through torture. He will go through it.

Pekka - you're my most respected OTF poster .

[Pekka]

Buttlicking doesn't change my mind!!

Well, let's say I'm undecided. And I don't want to torture people to see if I'm right or wrong.. I'm not that fanatical about this issue .
Yeah, I hope I fall in love, I really do. But I'm also realistic about it, it might not ever happen. I'm open to it though, I won't shut down people from me. Or be to analytical about it. I just need to feel it. Feel more than just attraction, lust, affection and caring.. more than crush.

[Solver]

Buttlicking doesn't change my mind!!

Just didn't have an opportunity to say that earlier .

Pekka, again, you're being pessimistic, not realistic. You're young, and will fall in love. And when you will, you're going to know it. You will be ready to die for her, give away the last thing you posess...

[Pekka]

I'm not sure if I want to die for a chick . I can always get a new dog, and go to strip clubs

Maybe it's just because I'm tired of women right now. No, I'm not turning gay. I'm just tired of all the BS there is to everything. Yep. THat's pretty much about it. To me, most women seem to be the same, no one has any own thoughts, no one is special, all they have is pretty smile and bad driving skills.
It's like this. When ever you have sex with a chick, I mean a hot chick too with a killer body and who act sexy too, most of the times they just lay there like a dead fish.. you know 'do me'. wtf? Like I'm supposed to do all the work. Too passive, too passive, nothing special man.. that goes with the brain side too. 'Well what do you think?'.. if I wanted to have my opinion, I wouldn't have asked about it, now would I?

Most chicks take (especially hot chicks) men for granted. They don't even try, they just think since they're all that, that I should have my tongue out and follow. How interesting is that?

[Solver]

I can always get a new dog, and go to strip clubs

When you no longer think so, you're in love .

To me, most women seem to be the same, no one has any own thoughts, no one is special, all they have is pretty smile and bad driving skills.

Which is why you shouldn't go for looks. My preferrence has always been girls with brains. Brainless girls, dunno... you can go to a pub for that.

When ever you have sex with a chick, I mean a hot chick too with a killer body and who act sexy too, most of the times they just lay there like a dead fish.. you know 'do me'.

Get the right ones, again . Come to Latvia, from your Finnland .

Most chicks take (especially hot chicks) men for granted.

That's why I would try to provide her with something she really needs.