When is your SO, your SO, to the extent that sleeping with someone else is cheating?

[TCO]

discuss.

[FrustratedPoet]

To paraphrase Seinfeld: An implied date on Saturday night, phone calls every day and feminine hygiene products in your bathroom? You've got yourself a relationship there, my friend.

[Makeo]

for me its once your sleeping with them.

[reds4ever]

once you a mutual agreement on the subject

[Az]

Originally posted by Makeo
for me its once your sleeping with them.

[FrustratedPoet]

Originally posted by reds4ever
once you a mutual agreement on the subject

Certainly, but it can be a difficult subject to bring up.

Man: "Do you think we should be exclusive?"
Woman: "You mean you thought we WEREN'T right now?!? Have you been cheating on me?!?"
Man: "No, of course not."
Woman: "I bet you have: why else would you bring the subject up. You bastard! I hate you!".



The roles could easily be reversed, too, of course.

[LTEC!]

Once the thought that she might do it with someone else makes you cringe.

[TCO]

Ok...those were all accurate answers. Now, who's going to tell me what I want to hear. The 100 mile limit and all that stuff. Just kidding. I think.

[Az]

what's the 100 mile limit?

[Solly]

It's usually obvious.

[LTEC!]

how long til shes back?

[TCO]

Originally posted by LTEC!
how long til shes back?

You're good. She was back. I thought things were a little wierd after that. But she's on another trip. I see her Tuesday. We are going to a concert. Oh...I need to buy her a birthday present. What is a good gift. Have been seeing her since January. Exclusive since March or so. Has been long distance. But see her every couple weeks or so for a long weekend or something. Talk often on the phone. That sorta thing. What level gift? And what is nice.

[TCO]

Originally posted by Azazel
what's the 100 mile limit?

You don't need to worry about it. You live on a postage stamp surrounded by bedouins.

[Az]

true that. I actually drove for 100 miles tonight, and I was some 15 miles from the desert.

[LTEC!]

Jewelry.
Not a ring. Earrings, a necklace...blah blah.