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    Is cheating worse when...

    ... they cheat with someone of a different gender to you?

    I was just thinking, because in Friends Carol was never really reffered to as having cheated on Ross all that time ago - becuase she had slept with a woman and come out as a lesbian.

    Guys, would you find it worse if your girlfiend cheated on you with a woman or a guy? Or are they both the same?
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    Someone of the same gender as you.
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    Someone of a different gender to you.
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    Both the same.
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    With a banana, and a few cherries to boot...
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    well, i think i'd be hurt more if my gf left me for another girl... who was more masculine than i was.



    that was one of the funnier frasier episodes.
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    • #3
      Why would there be a difference ?
      A hoochie mama is a hoochie mama, guy or girl. Same sex or not.
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      • #4
        Re: Is cheating worse when...

        Originally posted by red_jon
        Guys, would you find it worse if your girlfiend cheated on you with a woman or a guy? Or are they both the same?
        Would you find it worse if your BF cheated on your with a girl or a guy? Or would they both be the same?

        You should answer the question as well.
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        • #5
          Re: Re: Is cheating worse when...

          Originally posted by DinoDoc
          Would you find it worse if your BF cheated on your with a girl or a guy? Or would they both be the same?

          You should answer the question as well.


          I suppose in a way it would be less bad if he cheated with a girl - because at least I wouldn't be comparing myself to the guy he cheated with...

          If they've already said they're bi, I guess it's a different matter too though...

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          • #6
            Nah... I think cheating gets worse if it's with a close friend or relative of the person getting cheated on. I doubt gender matters. If anything, if my SO turned out to be a lesbo and was cheating on me; it might be less painful because then I know it was more about sexual identity than infidelity. Although, it would still hurt because I would hope that we would have enough honesty in our relationship... which we do.
            To us, it is the BEAST.

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            • #7
              Sava - just reading your sigs - Fez is older than me?! I thought he was younger!

              Anyhoo, enough threadjacking my own thread. Nice answer

              I guess if they were confused about sexual orientation then they have less blame...

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              • #8
                I guess if they were confused about sexual orientation then they have less blame...
                Plus, I would be in a great position to make her feel guilty in hopes of getting her to let me watch.
                To us, it is the BEAST.

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                • #9
                  You're a sick bastard, Sava.
                  Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
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                  He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Sava
                    Nah... I think cheating gets worse if it's with a close friend or relative of the person getting cheated on. I doubt gender matters.
                    I think what Sava thinks.
                    If I'm posting here then Counterglow must be down.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by SlowwHand
                      You're a sick bastard, Sava.
                      Just trying to find the silver-lining

                      I mean, how often do you get to witness a lesbo-lick-fest... without paying for it!
                      To us, it is the BEAST.

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                      • #12
                        I guess if they were confused about sexual orientation then they have less blame...
                        How "confused" can you be if you are attracted enough to have sex with him/her.
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Boddington's


                          How "confused" can you be if you are attracted enough to have sex with him/her.
                          My ex actually proposed to his girlfriend. People have done some extreme things to try to cover up their sexuality.

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                          • #14
                            I'm sure they have. This still doesn't give justification to your claim that people can freely cheat in an established relationship so long as they can claim they were confused about their sexulity.

                            As a side-point, I also questioned why someone would be confused if they were sure enough of their attraction that they were willing to have sex with someone.
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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Boddington's
                              I'm sure they have. This still doesn't give justification to your claim that people can freely cheat in an established relationship so long as they can claim they were confused about their sexulity.

                              As a side-point, I also questioned why someone would be confused if they were sure enough of their attraction that they were willing to have sex with someone.

                              You don't have to be attracted to someone to be pushed into sex with them. If you do have sex with somoeone yet are attracted to someone of a different gender at the same time then you're bisexual (to whatever degree).

                              I also don't believe that people can freely cheat - I just think that there are certain circumstances in which the situtation is not as bad.

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